A WARM HELLO TO THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE ABOUT TO EXPERIENCE MY WORLD OF WRITING. YOU ARE ABOUT TO EMBARK ON A UNIQUE JOURNEY THROUGH EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS THAT ARE HIDDEN INSIDE OF ME.........
AS YOU READ THROUGH MY GALLERY OF THOUGHTS, YOU WILL DISCOVER MY TRUE ESSENCE OF WHO I AM. YOU WILL GET TO KNOW ME IN A VERY INTIMATE WAY, AS I EXPRESS MY INNERMOST FEELINGS. MY TRUE SELF WILL BE REVEALED IN A PROFOUND MANNER.............
THE WAY I WRITE IS DEEP, LIKE THE WAY I THINK, AND THE WAY I LOVE !!! UPON EXPERIENCING MY EMOTIONS, YOU WILL REALIZE WE ARE ALL CONNECTED TO ONE ANOTHER THROUGH GODS LOVE. WE ARE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN THIS LIFE WE LIVE. THE MOST VITAL REASON FOR MY WEBSITE IS TO BRING NEW HOPE AND FAITH TO THOSE OF YOU WHO NEED IT! I AM ENRICHED BY KNOWING IVE INSPIRED EACH OF YOU, IN A DIFFERENT WAY. THE EXPERIENCE YOU WILL HAVE WHILE DISCOVERING MANY HEARTFELT EMOTIONS MAY BRING OUT A VARIETY OF FEELINGS YOU HOLD INSIDE YOUR HEART. I GIVE A PART OF MYSELF THROUGH EACH WRITING...........
YOU CAN REDISCOVER WHO YOU ARE IN ESSENCE OF YOUR OWN REACTIONS TO MY WORDS SPOKEN. LET YOUR JOURNEY BEGIN.............
HAPPY READING!!!!!!
THANK YOU FOR BEING A PART OF MY WRITING EXPERIENCE...........
Blessings Of A Photograph 10/9/2011
As I began to look through our ancient, infamous McBride photos, I gazed out the window watching the rain fall. It reminded me of my childhood! I loved watching it rain!! I couldn't wait til morning to go to school so I could put on my rain boots. Here I am, starting to open up buried treasures stored in our family photos. Each photo brought back such cherished memories of when my girls were just tiny babies. Breanna was such a sweet chunky baby-doll with lots of personality galore!!
She was born a good size, nothing small about her!! ha..... As I encountered each photo, it felt as if I had turned the clock back 16 years ago and stepped into each one! What beautiful memories we have of our life back then. Being able to reflect upon our days back then brought me to an interesting place. As I turned the pages of yesterday in the photo album, there's my dad!!! His precious memory hit me like a ton of bricks. My heart ached, my eyes teared, my mouth dropped as if I wanted to cry out!! I wanted to replay those memories one more time in my mind!!! I felt a weakness come over me with such a sense of loss. My dad was the glue that held our family all together, in the sense of being our hero, our dad, and grandpa!! He was amazing..... so active, so vibrant, so much a part of our lives and a part of us. At that very moment, I couldn't process the realization that he's gone from us physically. My mind went blank!! I went blank!! How could this really be??
As the moments passed, I prayed to God to give me divine strength to get through the night. All of a sudden, a calmness came over me. I began opening up the next photo album which was next to me, and the sight of my adorable tiny, precious Amanda was right there on the front page of her baby album. Remembering when she came into this world and blessed our lives with love and happiness. What a petite, small, little doll she was!! Only 6 lbs 1 oz at birth. I focused on her amazing photos which in return filled my heart with pride and joy. Photos of my mom with the girls, my sister, uncle Robert, and of course the McBride's all brought happy memories back into my mind of yesterdays reality. Many more photos of my dad and I with the girls appeared, page after page!!
I honor each memory of my dad, and I still feel so devastated from his passing. If only I could turn back the hand in time by 1 year, when he was still with us, I would!!! But, life doesn't work that way!! God has it all figured out in his own way. I feel blessed to have the memories of all those awesome, treasured photos. When I want to revisit my dad, all I have to do is open up the photo albums and tell him how much he means to us. He will hear me and I'll feel glad and at peace inside.
Written by- Brenda McBride
As I began to look through our ancient, infamous McBride photos, I gazed out the window watching the rain fall. It reminded me of my childhood! I loved watching it rain!! I couldn't wait til morning to go to school so I could put on my rain boots. Here I am, starting to open up buried treasures stored in our family photos. Each photo brought back such cherished memories of when my girls were just tiny babies. Breanna was such a sweet chunky baby-doll with lots of personality galore!!
She was born a good size, nothing small about her!! ha..... As I encountered each photo, it felt as if I had turned the clock back 16 years ago and stepped into each one! What beautiful memories we have of our life back then. Being able to reflect upon our days back then brought me to an interesting place. As I turned the pages of yesterday in the photo album, there's my dad!!! His precious memory hit me like a ton of bricks. My heart ached, my eyes teared, my mouth dropped as if I wanted to cry out!! I wanted to replay those memories one more time in my mind!!! I felt a weakness come over me with such a sense of loss. My dad was the glue that held our family all together, in the sense of being our hero, our dad, and grandpa!! He was amazing..... so active, so vibrant, so much a part of our lives and a part of us. At that very moment, I couldn't process the realization that he's gone from us physically. My mind went blank!! I went blank!! How could this really be??
As the moments passed, I prayed to God to give me divine strength to get through the night. All of a sudden, a calmness came over me. I began opening up the next photo album which was next to me, and the sight of my adorable tiny, precious Amanda was right there on the front page of her baby album. Remembering when she came into this world and blessed our lives with love and happiness. What a petite, small, little doll she was!! Only 6 lbs 1 oz at birth. I focused on her amazing photos which in return filled my heart with pride and joy. Photos of my mom with the girls, my sister, uncle Robert, and of course the McBride's all brought happy memories back into my mind of yesterdays reality. Many more photos of my dad and I with the girls appeared, page after page!!
I honor each memory of my dad, and I still feel so devastated from his passing. If only I could turn back the hand in time by 1 year, when he was still with us, I would!!! But, life doesn't work that way!! God has it all figured out in his own way. I feel blessed to have the memories of all those awesome, treasured photos. When I want to revisit my dad, all I have to do is open up the photo albums and tell him how much he means to us. He will hear me and I'll feel glad and at peace inside.
Written by- Brenda McBride
Yesterday Once More 10/9/2011
Remembering family moments of yesterday, far back in the corner of my mind brings such feelings of appreciation to the surface, cherishing the moments we can never bring back. Realizing, we only have one chance to live, to love and to die. Yesterday is only a far away memory in my mind, full of affection so deep. A distant star that still shines brightly in the depth of my memory. The very essence of the warmth, the love, the connection we all felt. So deep inside my very core. I feel the urge to reach out, to cry out, to scream out loud, once more. Yesterday held so many treasures of my hearts fond emotions. But now, I've came to a crossroad within my soul, to move forward, step by step. To walk ahead and not look back. To live again, to breath again, to allow myself to rebuild my life again. We only live once, only one chance to cherish what God has given us. Yesterday can never be brought back. Only the memory can be relived, replayed and cherished. I must live my life in the present, the here and now. Tomorrow wasn't promised to us. All we really have is today to treasure and the one's who are right beside us guiding us along the way. I give myself permission to love those right next to me, for who they are and for the love we share. I allow myself to remember the one's who have been a part of our lives, but, are no longer with us, in the physical sense. I accept my emotions of missing them, and I allow myself to move forward. Those who have passed are never truly gone . I will give myself permission to feel their loss and to heal. I must realize that pain is part of healing. As I live each day , I will accept the pain I may feel. It will come and go, it's the process of recovering from a major loss that has been a huge part of us. Those who have passed that were close to our hearts are intertwined in our lives by their spirit. We will always feel their energy all around us. We must realize it's OK to feel their absence. Giving ourselves complete permission to be human is what helps us to be OK. We are still connected to our loved ones, more than we know!!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Remembering family moments of yesterday, far back in the corner of my mind brings such feelings of appreciation to the surface, cherishing the moments we can never bring back. Realizing, we only have one chance to live, to love and to die. Yesterday is only a far away memory in my mind, full of affection so deep. A distant star that still shines brightly in the depth of my memory. The very essence of the warmth, the love, the connection we all felt. So deep inside my very core. I feel the urge to reach out, to cry out, to scream out loud, once more. Yesterday held so many treasures of my hearts fond emotions. But now, I've came to a crossroad within my soul, to move forward, step by step. To walk ahead and not look back. To live again, to breath again, to allow myself to rebuild my life again. We only live once, only one chance to cherish what God has given us. Yesterday can never be brought back. Only the memory can be relived, replayed and cherished. I must live my life in the present, the here and now. Tomorrow wasn't promised to us. All we really have is today to treasure and the one's who are right beside us guiding us along the way. I give myself permission to love those right next to me, for who they are and for the love we share. I allow myself to remember the one's who have been a part of our lives, but, are no longer with us, in the physical sense. I accept my emotions of missing them, and I allow myself to move forward. Those who have passed are never truly gone . I will give myself permission to feel their loss and to heal. I must realize that pain is part of healing. As I live each day , I will accept the pain I may feel. It will come and go, it's the process of recovering from a major loss that has been a huge part of us. Those who have passed that were close to our hearts are intertwined in our lives by their spirit. We will always feel their energy all around us. We must realize it's OK to feel their absence. Giving ourselves complete permission to be human is what helps us to be OK. We are still connected to our loved ones, more than we know!!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Unspoken Words......... 9/21/2011
Don't fret over words not spoken, or ponder upon feelings not shared........
Those we love already know our thoughts for them, by the way we've cared........
Don't dwell on those little things you wish you would have done......
Those we love know our hearts desires from the depth of our soul and things yet to come........
Don't worry about the past with it's sadness and sorrows, pull away from feeling down with despair........
Think of all your accomplishments with pride from within, knowing they are still here........
Don't regret not doing enough or not saying the right words to show your gratitude and love.........
We are all connected together in spirit, and will reunite once again and soar together, free as a dove.
So realize, life here is short, so we must be of service to others to make another smile and feel good.........
Don't look for the negative, but cling to all life’s blessings around you, the way you should........
Those you love are watching you grow and prosper, day by day..........
Talk to them often, let them know you feel their energy all around, by the things you say.
Dedicated to all those who have transitioned into spirit.
We still think of you and love you with all our heart!!!
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
Don't fret over words not spoken, or ponder upon feelings not shared........
Those we love already know our thoughts for them, by the way we've cared........
Don't dwell on those little things you wish you would have done......
Those we love know our hearts desires from the depth of our soul and things yet to come........
Don't worry about the past with it's sadness and sorrows, pull away from feeling down with despair........
Think of all your accomplishments with pride from within, knowing they are still here........
Don't regret not doing enough or not saying the right words to show your gratitude and love.........
We are all connected together in spirit, and will reunite once again and soar together, free as a dove.
So realize, life here is short, so we must be of service to others to make another smile and feel good.........
Don't look for the negative, but cling to all life’s blessings around you, the way you should........
Those you love are watching you grow and prosper, day by day..........
Talk to them often, let them know you feel their energy all around, by the things you say.
Dedicated to all those who have transitioned into spirit.
We still think of you and love you with all our heart!!!
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
In Remembrance Of 911
For all those who lost a significant other or a family member in the line of duty trying to save lives on that dreadful, unfortunate day............
My heart cries out to each one of you, for I know the pain you must feel, more than I can say...........
There are no words of comfort to ever make you feel OK, the loss is too much to bear..........
I know what you may be thinking, it's normal, to want them back once again, to be here..........
I've lost a loved one too, and it is very devastating to realize their life is over, the life we once knew..........
Please know you're not alone, their are many like us who are grieving, just like me and you.......
I know how difficult it is to miss someone we love, it's the hardest thing in life to try to accept, if we can........
We must honor their memory of who they were and appreciate all they did , being a brave man............
Life can be humbling, so take pride in the memory you spent together in the past........
Cry if you will, don't keep the pain locked up like a prisoner, release it , it won't forever last......
Each life lost held a special purpose in the cycle of life, so remember the person with all your heart.........
They are still here among us, speak to them as you live your life, together you will never part.
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written For- All those who lost loved one's who lost their lives in the tragic event of 911.
My prayers are with you always.
For all those who lost a significant other or a family member in the line of duty trying to save lives on that dreadful, unfortunate day............
My heart cries out to each one of you, for I know the pain you must feel, more than I can say...........
There are no words of comfort to ever make you feel OK, the loss is too much to bear..........
I know what you may be thinking, it's normal, to want them back once again, to be here..........
I've lost a loved one too, and it is very devastating to realize their life is over, the life we once knew..........
Please know you're not alone, their are many like us who are grieving, just like me and you.......
I know how difficult it is to miss someone we love, it's the hardest thing in life to try to accept, if we can........
We must honor their memory of who they were and appreciate all they did , being a brave man............
Life can be humbling, so take pride in the memory you spent together in the past........
Cry if you will, don't keep the pain locked up like a prisoner, release it , it won't forever last......
Each life lost held a special purpose in the cycle of life, so remember the person with all your heart.........
They are still here among us, speak to them as you live your life, together you will never part.
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written For- All those who lost loved one's who lost their lives in the tragic event of 911.
My prayers are with you always.
A Blessing From Above 9/1/2011
As I gazed up into the gallant sky with tears running down my face with great emotion, I noticed something that was remarkable. An incredible sight crossed my path with such ease and grace. The most beautiful white dove swiftly soared above me, out of the blue. Not a bird in sight at this late hour in the night, accept for this dove which was sent to me to bring me peace and comfort. As he swiftly glided over head, I wiped my tears that were quickly trickling down my checks to get a better look at this amazing sight. I knew at that very moment I spotted this heavenly blessing that my dad sent it my way for a reason. He knew my tears of sadness were too much for me to bear, and my road ahead was getting weary because of his passing. Out of love and concern, my dad wanted to wake me up, so to speak and show me that he is still here with me, in a different dimension that is. He knew my love for birds would be the best way to bless me with peace. He also knew it was a way for him to connect with me.
So, when you find blessings that cross your path out of the ordinary, think twice who may have sent it. A gift that pops up out of the blue is a true gift from our loved ones who have passed. It's their way of reassuring us that they are with us and they still love us just as much before. If we take the time to notice their trail of surprises that they send, and if we have faith that life continues on after death, then, we can heal much faster. Our loved ones don't want us to grieve for them, they want us to grasp every gift they send us with open arms. Each time I find a special blessing from now on, I will gladly thank my dad for sending it my way. His special gifts will lift me up with a smile and wipe away each tear that I've cried.
Let our loved ones know how much we still love them by acknowledging them with gratitude and appreciation. So, next time a beautiful butterfly crosses your path or a rainbow appears out of nowhere, think twice who may have sent it!! You may be pleasantly surprised!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written For- My dad.
As I gazed up into the gallant sky with tears running down my face with great emotion, I noticed something that was remarkable. An incredible sight crossed my path with such ease and grace. The most beautiful white dove swiftly soared above me, out of the blue. Not a bird in sight at this late hour in the night, accept for this dove which was sent to me to bring me peace and comfort. As he swiftly glided over head, I wiped my tears that were quickly trickling down my checks to get a better look at this amazing sight. I knew at that very moment I spotted this heavenly blessing that my dad sent it my way for a reason. He knew my tears of sadness were too much for me to bear, and my road ahead was getting weary because of his passing. Out of love and concern, my dad wanted to wake me up, so to speak and show me that he is still here with me, in a different dimension that is. He knew my love for birds would be the best way to bless me with peace. He also knew it was a way for him to connect with me.
So, when you find blessings that cross your path out of the ordinary, think twice who may have sent it. A gift that pops up out of the blue is a true gift from our loved ones who have passed. It's their way of reassuring us that they are with us and they still love us just as much before. If we take the time to notice their trail of surprises that they send, and if we have faith that life continues on after death, then, we can heal much faster. Our loved ones don't want us to grieve for them, they want us to grasp every gift they send us with open arms. Each time I find a special blessing from now on, I will gladly thank my dad for sending it my way. His special gifts will lift me up with a smile and wipe away each tear that I've cried.
Let our loved ones know how much we still love them by acknowledging them with gratitude and appreciation. So, next time a beautiful butterfly crosses your path or a rainbow appears out of nowhere, think twice who may have sent it!! You may be pleasantly surprised!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written For- My dad.
Just Believe....... 8/27/2011
When you see a beautiful rainbow in the sky that appeared out of nowhere, look at it closely at its beauty, as it radiates joy from above........
Know in your heart that I sent it to you to bring you comfort and to ease your pain, as I fly away in spirit, free from all worry, sending you my love........
When the cool winters breeze fills your soul with a warm sensation, and you feel such joy deep within, think of me, and realize I sent my warmth your way to ease your pain......
Stay safe through the storms, and remember I'll stay close to you through the dark winters rain.......
When you find unexpected gifts that cross your path out of the blue, take a close look at them and think about the meaning that it sends to you........
Know in your heart, it was me who gave these blessings out of love, to bring hope, comfort and peace into your soul, feeling fresh and new........
When heartfelt memories come rushing in your mind like a waterfall with great force, cherish each thought and remember the joy it brought back then.....
Think of me with a happy heart, feeling grateful and blessed, knowing you'll see me again........
When you see a white dove flying overhead in the still of the night, just know in your heart, I sent that dove to check on you, to see if you're OK.......
Think of my guidance I brought you over the years, teaching you how to be strong from day to day......
When you sense my presence within your home, don't be afraid, not for one minute til the end of time......
Remember the happy days when I was healthy, not a care in the world, feeling so fine.......
Know in your heart, it was my time to leave, I had a long and happy life here on earth, so please don't cry.....
Don't grieve forever, live your life in peace as I did, move forward with your plans, and don't ask why.....
Just believe I’m with you as you go through your journey here on earth to learn and grow.......
I'll stay near to you, to send you peace and comfort, just believe I'm right here as you prosper and glow.......
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
Written for our loved ones who have passed.
When you see a beautiful rainbow in the sky that appeared out of nowhere, look at it closely at its beauty, as it radiates joy from above........
Know in your heart that I sent it to you to bring you comfort and to ease your pain, as I fly away in spirit, free from all worry, sending you my love........
When the cool winters breeze fills your soul with a warm sensation, and you feel such joy deep within, think of me, and realize I sent my warmth your way to ease your pain......
Stay safe through the storms, and remember I'll stay close to you through the dark winters rain.......
When you find unexpected gifts that cross your path out of the blue, take a close look at them and think about the meaning that it sends to you........
Know in your heart, it was me who gave these blessings out of love, to bring hope, comfort and peace into your soul, feeling fresh and new........
When heartfelt memories come rushing in your mind like a waterfall with great force, cherish each thought and remember the joy it brought back then.....
Think of me with a happy heart, feeling grateful and blessed, knowing you'll see me again........
When you see a white dove flying overhead in the still of the night, just know in your heart, I sent that dove to check on you, to see if you're OK.......
Think of my guidance I brought you over the years, teaching you how to be strong from day to day......
When you sense my presence within your home, don't be afraid, not for one minute til the end of time......
Remember the happy days when I was healthy, not a care in the world, feeling so fine.......
Know in your heart, it was my time to leave, I had a long and happy life here on earth, so please don't cry.....
Don't grieve forever, live your life in peace as I did, move forward with your plans, and don't ask why.....
Just believe I’m with you as you go through your journey here on earth to learn and grow.......
I'll stay near to you, to send you peace and comfort, just believe I'm right here as you prosper and glow.......
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
Written for our loved ones who have passed.
Freedom To Fly 8/22/2011
Have you ever noticed that the most amazing things in life hold the greatest depth of beauty. Its essence radiates a sense of beauty and poise. When we stop to look at these amazing things in life, it's then we can appreciate its true unique characteristics. All great and small creatures and people start out as a mere seed, which grows and becomes a beautiful soul with hidden gifts that’s deep within. Each one of us has our own blueprint of who we are and who we will become after our true self transcends into that journey of life. Just like the butterfly, he starts out as a caterpillar with limits in his mobility. Then, at the right moment and the right time, he transitions into a amazing butterfly, ready for flight! His vivid colors are admired just as his beauty is highly appreciated as he gracefully and swiftly has freedom to explore his flight. We are very much like this graceful butterfly, if you stop to make the analogy!! Our soul starts out small as a baby, which through the years develops and grows into a unique person who wants freedom and wings to fly from our cozy childhood into our journey of being an adult! Gods plan is so right on to the tee, down to the very second. He has all our transitions which we will experience carefully designed with love for each of us. We all have the freedom to follow whats right and to fly away from home. Remember, all things in life start out humble with questions and an innocent heart. But, as we gain experience through our journey, we realize whats truly important. What seems to matter the most is who we are deep inside. Realizing, we are all the same in many ways. Some of us transition into evolved human beings while others stay at one level. God loves us for who we are and for the compassion we show to others. The meek are just as valued as the strong and mighty. If we appreciate each one of Gods creatures for what it is, we will find peace and feel love for them all. The many transitions we must make in our own journey, will mold us to a better person with the freedom to be who we are. So, let your soul soar high with freedom to seek the best things in life! And, if you fly high enough with your dreams, you may find that they may just all come true!!
Written By, Brenda Mcbride
Have you ever noticed that the most amazing things in life hold the greatest depth of beauty. Its essence radiates a sense of beauty and poise. When we stop to look at these amazing things in life, it's then we can appreciate its true unique characteristics. All great and small creatures and people start out as a mere seed, which grows and becomes a beautiful soul with hidden gifts that’s deep within. Each one of us has our own blueprint of who we are and who we will become after our true self transcends into that journey of life. Just like the butterfly, he starts out as a caterpillar with limits in his mobility. Then, at the right moment and the right time, he transitions into a amazing butterfly, ready for flight! His vivid colors are admired just as his beauty is highly appreciated as he gracefully and swiftly has freedom to explore his flight. We are very much like this graceful butterfly, if you stop to make the analogy!! Our soul starts out small as a baby, which through the years develops and grows into a unique person who wants freedom and wings to fly from our cozy childhood into our journey of being an adult! Gods plan is so right on to the tee, down to the very second. He has all our transitions which we will experience carefully designed with love for each of us. We all have the freedom to follow whats right and to fly away from home. Remember, all things in life start out humble with questions and an innocent heart. But, as we gain experience through our journey, we realize whats truly important. What seems to matter the most is who we are deep inside. Realizing, we are all the same in many ways. Some of us transition into evolved human beings while others stay at one level. God loves us for who we are and for the compassion we show to others. The meek are just as valued as the strong and mighty. If we appreciate each one of Gods creatures for what it is, we will find peace and feel love for them all. The many transitions we must make in our own journey, will mold us to a better person with the freedom to be who we are. So, let your soul soar high with freedom to seek the best things in life! And, if you fly high enough with your dreams, you may find that they may just all come true!!
Written By, Brenda Mcbride
Dedicated To My Dad 8/14/2011
Dear Dad,
Wow!!!! I can hardly believe it's already been 5 months on the 22nd since your passing. It feels like yesterday when we were talking at the breakfast table about how you've lived a long and happy life. Our conversation we had that morning will always stay with me. I wanted to reach out for your hand, but, I was too overwhelmed with emotion to even move! You were preparing me for what lies ahead. Nothing could prepare me of the event of your passing. But, I appreciate so much your honesty in telling me that soon you'd be leaving this life and passing to the next. Your courage and inner peace was full of acceptance. It also seems like yesterday that we all went to Sea World with Aunt Donna, You, me and the girls. That day always pops up in my mind as being one of the most happiest days!!!! Your health was pretty good at that point. The cancer was just starting to spread throughout your leg bone, but, you never once complained or made a big deal out of it. You didn't want to worry us in any way! You put all of our needs first and you never focused on yourself! Thank you Dad for those kind of special, cherished memories! Your smiling face keeps popping in my mind. I realize it's because you’re now smiling!! All the struggles are behind you.....and, you certainly have a good reason to smile!! Mom and I are still having some tough moments since your passing. It sometimes doesn't seem real. My heart hurts because I miss hearing your voice everyday and seeing you. Thank you for each and every memory and especially for all your guidance and help you’ve given me. I am so grateful for all you've done for me My life is actually turning out OK. All the many lessons you've taught me still remain with me. I can hear your famous words of comfort saying, things will be OK. You always spoke with a gentle, calm and patient heart. Thank you for your many, many dream visits since your passing. It proves that we still are very much connected to one another, even after death. I could never stop loving you or thinking about you, even after death!! Mom and I and even Sabrina are receiving your subtle messages that you’re around us. I found that beautiful feather a few months ago in my room that I believe you sent me!! I knew at that very moment it was a gift from you Dad!!! Thank you!! Mom is finding penny’s everywhere, and she believes it's from you as well. Sabrina has heard your foot steps in her home and found dimes, which she too believe came from you! I feel your gentle love around me all the time, and lately I feel you touching my head softly. We still are connected with you......... just in a differently way. Each dream I've had of you leaves me feeling blessed. I knew you'd continue to connect with us. I will continue to talk to you as if you were still physically here. All your photos in my home bring me so many fond memories. I’m way too emotional to fully look at your photos without crying, but, you understand! Your passing is very much like a raw wound to me.......... it's taking me lots of time to adjust. I sure miss you Dad!!!!!!!!!! You were the greatest dad in the whole universe!!!!!!! Please stay around us to guide us with your love. And, we will continue to talk to you and acknowledge your presence! I know you're with your family and friends enjoying life in heaven. Save a special spot for us for when our time comes to meet you! And, please give uncle Tom, Harold , Ralph and Uncle Al a big hug for me!! And, Aunt Frances and Uncle Bill too. I miss you all so much!!!!! Have a great golf game with Dan!!! Stay in touch with us always!!!!!!
Love Forever,
Brenda
Dear Dad,
Wow!!!! I can hardly believe it's already been 5 months on the 22nd since your passing. It feels like yesterday when we were talking at the breakfast table about how you've lived a long and happy life. Our conversation we had that morning will always stay with me. I wanted to reach out for your hand, but, I was too overwhelmed with emotion to even move! You were preparing me for what lies ahead. Nothing could prepare me of the event of your passing. But, I appreciate so much your honesty in telling me that soon you'd be leaving this life and passing to the next. Your courage and inner peace was full of acceptance. It also seems like yesterday that we all went to Sea World with Aunt Donna, You, me and the girls. That day always pops up in my mind as being one of the most happiest days!!!! Your health was pretty good at that point. The cancer was just starting to spread throughout your leg bone, but, you never once complained or made a big deal out of it. You didn't want to worry us in any way! You put all of our needs first and you never focused on yourself! Thank you Dad for those kind of special, cherished memories! Your smiling face keeps popping in my mind. I realize it's because you’re now smiling!! All the struggles are behind you.....and, you certainly have a good reason to smile!! Mom and I are still having some tough moments since your passing. It sometimes doesn't seem real. My heart hurts because I miss hearing your voice everyday and seeing you. Thank you for each and every memory and especially for all your guidance and help you’ve given me. I am so grateful for all you've done for me My life is actually turning out OK. All the many lessons you've taught me still remain with me. I can hear your famous words of comfort saying, things will be OK. You always spoke with a gentle, calm and patient heart. Thank you for your many, many dream visits since your passing. It proves that we still are very much connected to one another, even after death. I could never stop loving you or thinking about you, even after death!! Mom and I and even Sabrina are receiving your subtle messages that you’re around us. I found that beautiful feather a few months ago in my room that I believe you sent me!! I knew at that very moment it was a gift from you Dad!!! Thank you!! Mom is finding penny’s everywhere, and she believes it's from you as well. Sabrina has heard your foot steps in her home and found dimes, which she too believe came from you! I feel your gentle love around me all the time, and lately I feel you touching my head softly. We still are connected with you......... just in a differently way. Each dream I've had of you leaves me feeling blessed. I knew you'd continue to connect with us. I will continue to talk to you as if you were still physically here. All your photos in my home bring me so many fond memories. I’m way too emotional to fully look at your photos without crying, but, you understand! Your passing is very much like a raw wound to me.......... it's taking me lots of time to adjust. I sure miss you Dad!!!!!!!!!! You were the greatest dad in the whole universe!!!!!!! Please stay around us to guide us with your love. And, we will continue to talk to you and acknowledge your presence! I know you're with your family and friends enjoying life in heaven. Save a special spot for us for when our time comes to meet you! And, please give uncle Tom, Harold , Ralph and Uncle Al a big hug for me!! And, Aunt Frances and Uncle Bill too. I miss you all so much!!!!! Have a great golf game with Dan!!! Stay in touch with us always!!!!!!
Love Forever,
Brenda
Blessings That Can't Be Seen
There are times in life when we can't explain something. Things that surround us sometimes can only be felt, and not seen by the human eye. There's much more to our existence than just our physical being. Have you ever felt goosebumps all over, tingling your skin with a sensation that's hard to explain? Or, have you ever felt the hair on your body stand up as if there were an electric currant that tantalized your senses.
These are an example of occurrences that we can't explain, however, we know something has enlightened our being. I consider these occurrences blessing from God connected to the other side, where our loved ones reside. We unfortunately can't see them physically, but, we can certainly feel their touch and the love they’re sending us. Have you ever found a feather out of the blue or pennies that popped out of nowhere? These are more examples of signs our loved ones are sending us from the other side. These blessings come to us so quickly that they send, which leaves us with a sense of peace. Many a time we smell a beautiful fragrance so vivid! It very well may be your loved one sending you this aroma that they once wore to enlighten you and to let you know they're right next to you. We can't see a fragrance or see the feeling of love, but, we know it still exists. Just like electricity, we can't see the electrical currants, but, we see the light from the electricity. A mere comparison of what surrounds us daily, but can't be seen. Our eyes can only take us so far in our journey here on earth. There's so much more that truly exists.
We can't even comprehend the endless possibilities of things that can't be seen, but, can be felt by our human spirit. If we open up our minds and pray for these blessings to come into our lives to send us peace and help us prosper while were accomplishing our tasks on our journey, we will be surprised by the comfort and love that will touch us. A cool breeze that swiftly brushes by you, giving you that tingling feeling, or the birds that suddenly appear out of nowhere, singing you a song in harmony. There are endless blessings that are sent to us to give us what we need at that point in time.
I’m thankful for each and every little gift of love that’s sent my way. You never know when you’re sent a special blessing from the other side. I've been sent Beatles songs time and time again, out of the blue from my dad who is sending me a gift, one that he knows I will enjoy! Each song that’s been sent to me has had a significant message in which my dad purposely sent for a reason! I automatically knew at the very moment the song came on the radio, that my dad certainly had a hand in the dynamics of these special songs. There's no logical explanation of why we receive these blessings of love and peace. The only one that makes sense to me is that we're sent these gifts from our loved ones merely because they love us so very much and want us to know they are still with us in spirit form.
It's a lesson to be learned. A lesson that we should never forget! To realize that we don't need to see with our eyes to believe, but to feel with our spirit!!!! Our spirit is powerful and is who we really are. So, we should trust what we feel and have faith in our true self. Also, if we acknowledge these beautiful blessings that our loved ones bring us, it will connect us to them in a deep, loving way full of appreciation. I’m starting to say thank you dad for each occurrence that comes my way. On earth, Id gladly thank him for a gift he may give to me, so I now thank him just the same for his gifts and blessings he continues to send me. I want to continue to honor my dad for his gentle and peaceful spirit, and for letting me know our bond has not been broken!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written on- July 30, 2011
There are times in life when we can't explain something. Things that surround us sometimes can only be felt, and not seen by the human eye. There's much more to our existence than just our physical being. Have you ever felt goosebumps all over, tingling your skin with a sensation that's hard to explain? Or, have you ever felt the hair on your body stand up as if there were an electric currant that tantalized your senses.
These are an example of occurrences that we can't explain, however, we know something has enlightened our being. I consider these occurrences blessing from God connected to the other side, where our loved ones reside. We unfortunately can't see them physically, but, we can certainly feel their touch and the love they’re sending us. Have you ever found a feather out of the blue or pennies that popped out of nowhere? These are more examples of signs our loved ones are sending us from the other side. These blessings come to us so quickly that they send, which leaves us with a sense of peace. Many a time we smell a beautiful fragrance so vivid! It very well may be your loved one sending you this aroma that they once wore to enlighten you and to let you know they're right next to you. We can't see a fragrance or see the feeling of love, but, we know it still exists. Just like electricity, we can't see the electrical currants, but, we see the light from the electricity. A mere comparison of what surrounds us daily, but can't be seen. Our eyes can only take us so far in our journey here on earth. There's so much more that truly exists.
We can't even comprehend the endless possibilities of things that can't be seen, but, can be felt by our human spirit. If we open up our minds and pray for these blessings to come into our lives to send us peace and help us prosper while were accomplishing our tasks on our journey, we will be surprised by the comfort and love that will touch us. A cool breeze that swiftly brushes by you, giving you that tingling feeling, or the birds that suddenly appear out of nowhere, singing you a song in harmony. There are endless blessings that are sent to us to give us what we need at that point in time.
I’m thankful for each and every little gift of love that’s sent my way. You never know when you’re sent a special blessing from the other side. I've been sent Beatles songs time and time again, out of the blue from my dad who is sending me a gift, one that he knows I will enjoy! Each song that’s been sent to me has had a significant message in which my dad purposely sent for a reason! I automatically knew at the very moment the song came on the radio, that my dad certainly had a hand in the dynamics of these special songs. There's no logical explanation of why we receive these blessings of love and peace. The only one that makes sense to me is that we're sent these gifts from our loved ones merely because they love us so very much and want us to know they are still with us in spirit form.
It's a lesson to be learned. A lesson that we should never forget! To realize that we don't need to see with our eyes to believe, but to feel with our spirit!!!! Our spirit is powerful and is who we really are. So, we should trust what we feel and have faith in our true self. Also, if we acknowledge these beautiful blessings that our loved ones bring us, it will connect us to them in a deep, loving way full of appreciation. I’m starting to say thank you dad for each occurrence that comes my way. On earth, Id gladly thank him for a gift he may give to me, so I now thank him just the same for his gifts and blessings he continues to send me. I want to continue to honor my dad for his gentle and peaceful spirit, and for letting me know our bond has not been broken!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written on- July 30, 2011
If Tomorrow Never Comes
If we no longer existed, and our time on earth was done, we'd miss the sun shining down upon us and the warmth it brings.........
I'd still be thankful to God for those moments I had, reflections of yesterday that would stay with me, and the joy of many things.........
If the cool breeze that blows swiftly through my hair could never be felt again and the beauty of the stars that shined so bright could not be seen anymore........
I'd give thanks to God for those special moments of joy it brought me, and I'd cherish its memory with appreciation forever more..........
If we never felt the raindrops fall upon our face once more with the beauty of its own, and the crisp air that feels so fresh as we breath.........
I'd still be thankful to God for its memory that remains in my mind so sweet as I think of the fresh feeling it brought as I would leave.........
The reflections of yesterday would remain so clear to me for each moment that I embrace with love in my heart.........
I'd give thanks to God for these cherished times I had in my life with peace and serenity that would stay with me and never part........
If we no longer could hear the birds sing their songs together in harmony and enjoy the sound of their soul singing out so true.........
I'd still be thankful for the times I heard the joy in their songs with chirping of unique sound all their own , singing for me and for you..........
I'd give thanks to God for letting me have the pleasure of listening to the birds bless me with their gift of song that comes from their soul.........
Feeling thankful for the beauty they bring to us, and for how it makes us smile with happiness. feeling whole..........
If tomorrow never comes, and all these treasures of life cease to exist, I'd still have the memory of their existence that brought me love with a smile..........
I'd still be thankful for my life in many ways, and I'd remember each cherished moment God gave me to enjoy, as my journey came to an end, mile after mile........
The love from God is endless, there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for us if we pray to him and believe he is alive within us with every breath we take........
I'd give my soul to him once again as I left to meet him, with pride and anticipation as I came close to my journeys end, a journey I'd never forsake!!!!!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written on- July 21, 2011
If we no longer existed, and our time on earth was done, we'd miss the sun shining down upon us and the warmth it brings.........
I'd still be thankful to God for those moments I had, reflections of yesterday that would stay with me, and the joy of many things.........
If the cool breeze that blows swiftly through my hair could never be felt again and the beauty of the stars that shined so bright could not be seen anymore........
I'd give thanks to God for those special moments of joy it brought me, and I'd cherish its memory with appreciation forever more..........
If we never felt the raindrops fall upon our face once more with the beauty of its own, and the crisp air that feels so fresh as we breath.........
I'd still be thankful to God for its memory that remains in my mind so sweet as I think of the fresh feeling it brought as I would leave.........
The reflections of yesterday would remain so clear to me for each moment that I embrace with love in my heart.........
I'd give thanks to God for these cherished times I had in my life with peace and serenity that would stay with me and never part........
If we no longer could hear the birds sing their songs together in harmony and enjoy the sound of their soul singing out so true.........
I'd still be thankful for the times I heard the joy in their songs with chirping of unique sound all their own , singing for me and for you..........
I'd give thanks to God for letting me have the pleasure of listening to the birds bless me with their gift of song that comes from their soul.........
Feeling thankful for the beauty they bring to us, and for how it makes us smile with happiness. feeling whole..........
If tomorrow never comes, and all these treasures of life cease to exist, I'd still have the memory of their existence that brought me love with a smile..........
I'd still be thankful for my life in many ways, and I'd remember each cherished moment God gave me to enjoy, as my journey came to an end, mile after mile........
The love from God is endless, there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for us if we pray to him and believe he is alive within us with every breath we take........
I'd give my soul to him once again as I left to meet him, with pride and anticipation as I came close to my journeys end, a journey I'd never forsake!!!!!!!
Written By- Brenda McBride
Written on- July 21, 2011
Picking Up The Pieces 7/19/2011
After over one year of devastation and emotional turmoil of dealing with my dads cancer, I’m finally picking up the pieces of my emotions. I didn’t even realize how deeply withdrawn I was. Its been 4 months now since my dad has passed and left us. I’m just starting to regain my strength and my mental clarity, once again. Getting back to my old self feels great! The girls noticed that I’m starting to laugh a lot like before. Even though my dad is not with us, I feel his constant love surrounding us. We are all here in this life for a reason, and I realize we must appreciate each day for what it is. Now that I’m feeling more grounded, I give thanks for life’s blessings and gifts. When were preoccupied in grieving, we cant fully appreciate life for all the beauty that surrounds us and we cant successfully live in the moment. My dad would want me to be happy and to live my life to the fullest. He always taught me to do my very best, and now I can wake up and achieve my goals for each day. I’m getting so excited for my upcoming wedding and all the planning Kevin and I are doing. It feels so different not having my and dad beside me to guide me. But, I know I’ve become stronger. Through loss, we change! Hopefully we become stronger as life goes on. Adjusting to each new situation that arises is just part of our journey. Unfortunately, loosing those we love is part of life! However, in the process of becoming whole again, we go through so many emotions. Emotions I never even knew existed inside of me. Our loved ones experience far greater emotions than we could ever imagine, while they are departing from us. All we can do for them is to give them our love and peace from within. I’m trying to block out those sad, last moments of my dads life, and to remember my dad when he was full of life, love, compassionate, and happy. Those beautiful memories give me joy and help me to go on with my life. God gave us each a mission to accomplish. I came to the realization that there’s more to my life than sadness and dwelling on the past. We need to live life to the fullest, laugh often, love often and wake up with a smile each day! I will always keep my dad close to me in my heart and pray that he stays near us. And, I will look forward to reuniting with him one day.
After over one year of devastation and emotional turmoil of dealing with my dads cancer, I’m finally picking up the pieces of my emotions. I didn’t even realize how deeply withdrawn I was. Its been 4 months now since my dad has passed and left us. I’m just starting to regain my strength and my mental clarity, once again. Getting back to my old self feels great! The girls noticed that I’m starting to laugh a lot like before. Even though my dad is not with us, I feel his constant love surrounding us. We are all here in this life for a reason, and I realize we must appreciate each day for what it is. Now that I’m feeling more grounded, I give thanks for life’s blessings and gifts. When were preoccupied in grieving, we cant fully appreciate life for all the beauty that surrounds us and we cant successfully live in the moment. My dad would want me to be happy and to live my life to the fullest. He always taught me to do my very best, and now I can wake up and achieve my goals for each day. I’m getting so excited for my upcoming wedding and all the planning Kevin and I are doing. It feels so different not having my and dad beside me to guide me. But, I know I’ve become stronger. Through loss, we change! Hopefully we become stronger as life goes on. Adjusting to each new situation that arises is just part of our journey. Unfortunately, loosing those we love is part of life! However, in the process of becoming whole again, we go through so many emotions. Emotions I never even knew existed inside of me. Our loved ones experience far greater emotions than we could ever imagine, while they are departing from us. All we can do for them is to give them our love and peace from within. I’m trying to block out those sad, last moments of my dads life, and to remember my dad when he was full of life, love, compassionate, and happy. Those beautiful memories give me joy and help me to go on with my life. God gave us each a mission to accomplish. I came to the realization that there’s more to my life than sadness and dwelling on the past. We need to live life to the fullest, laugh often, love often and wake up with a smile each day! I will always keep my dad close to me in my heart and pray that he stays near us. And, I will look forward to reuniting with him one day.
Two Steps Forward, One Step Back 7/13/11
Within my journey of recovery from coping with my dads passing, I've experienced the intense process of grief that we must go through. There is no easy way around it!! It's very taxing on ones emotions, as well as draining, to say the least. I find myself engulfed in an endless whirl pool full of devastation and disbelief. My road to recovery is long and I know I have a lot to overcome before my journey is completed. I also realize it takes hard work to grieve, its the most difficult experience I've ever encountered in my life. Everyone has a different experience all their own, but, my journey to recovery is a battle!! A battle I did not expect to fight. I never could imagine the intense work involved that I would have to face the day my dad left us. I had no idea what I was up against.
So far, its been very frustrating and heartbreaking, to put it mildly! I move forward each day, two steps forward, and then, one step back! The process seems endless, so far! Where does it all lead to.... I just have to take baby steps, each moment of each day.
We can't completely break away from our loved ones who have shared our life with us. The separation feels painful. Our deep connection to our loved ones cant possibly be gone forever!! That seems impossible to just move on without them there!! But, with faith, we will learn to go on and believe they are still very much with us. Processing the void of not seeing them has been tremendously difficult! We long to see them and hear their voice!! But, we must reboot our mind to accept the true facts. Our loved ones are not in this dimension any longer. Whats done is done! Our job is to keep moving forward without looking back. We can't change the past.... they are in their own existence.
If we only knew what we were up against before their passing, maybe it would have been easier? Maybe we would be more prepared? The road to recovery is the longest, most tiring road of all!! How far will we have to travel til we get to a point where we are ok? We will never know until we get there.........and, we have to take our time getting there........ going through the peaks and valleys along the way. We must not rush ourselves through our grieving. As long as we are still moving forward in our recovery, there is certainly light at the end of our tunnel.
My personal journey is going to take me a while. As long as were alive, we will experience the pain and anguish of loosing those we love. That pain can be captivating and crippling. If we don't channel our thoughts in the right direction, our recovery may never happen. Connect with supportive friends, family, pastors, priests, or whoever brings you to that point of regaining your sanity!!! It will take time, but, anything worth striving for is worth the outcome. And, our loved ones will cheer us on and be proud of us for getting back to reality and for becoming strong. They want us to be ok. In the end, we are all going to be together once again.
So, lets recover and take those final steps forward!!!!
Written By, Brenda McBride
Within my journey of recovery from coping with my dads passing, I've experienced the intense process of grief that we must go through. There is no easy way around it!! It's very taxing on ones emotions, as well as draining, to say the least. I find myself engulfed in an endless whirl pool full of devastation and disbelief. My road to recovery is long and I know I have a lot to overcome before my journey is completed. I also realize it takes hard work to grieve, its the most difficult experience I've ever encountered in my life. Everyone has a different experience all their own, but, my journey to recovery is a battle!! A battle I did not expect to fight. I never could imagine the intense work involved that I would have to face the day my dad left us. I had no idea what I was up against.
So far, its been very frustrating and heartbreaking, to put it mildly! I move forward each day, two steps forward, and then, one step back! The process seems endless, so far! Where does it all lead to.... I just have to take baby steps, each moment of each day.
We can't completely break away from our loved ones who have shared our life with us. The separation feels painful. Our deep connection to our loved ones cant possibly be gone forever!! That seems impossible to just move on without them there!! But, with faith, we will learn to go on and believe they are still very much with us. Processing the void of not seeing them has been tremendously difficult! We long to see them and hear their voice!! But, we must reboot our mind to accept the true facts. Our loved ones are not in this dimension any longer. Whats done is done! Our job is to keep moving forward without looking back. We can't change the past.... they are in their own existence.
If we only knew what we were up against before their passing, maybe it would have been easier? Maybe we would be more prepared? The road to recovery is the longest, most tiring road of all!! How far will we have to travel til we get to a point where we are ok? We will never know until we get there.........and, we have to take our time getting there........ going through the peaks and valleys along the way. We must not rush ourselves through our grieving. As long as we are still moving forward in our recovery, there is certainly light at the end of our tunnel.
My personal journey is going to take me a while. As long as were alive, we will experience the pain and anguish of loosing those we love. That pain can be captivating and crippling. If we don't channel our thoughts in the right direction, our recovery may never happen. Connect with supportive friends, family, pastors, priests, or whoever brings you to that point of regaining your sanity!!! It will take time, but, anything worth striving for is worth the outcome. And, our loved ones will cheer us on and be proud of us for getting back to reality and for becoming strong. They want us to be ok. In the end, we are all going to be together once again.
So, lets recover and take those final steps forward!!!!
Written By, Brenda McBride
Coming To A Realization 6/29/2011
I now realize that Gods plan is perfect in every way, so we must not worry about things that happen to us in all we do........
Giving our stress straight to God each day will help us realize that Gods comfort is divine for me and you.......
We may never fully understand the divine plan of our journey thats perfectly mapped out in a specific way.........
Thanking him for our blessings that bring us joy is a gift indeed, just look around you and rejoice every day.........
I now realize why God takes the ones we love so much within the blink of an eye, to be reunited with him in his kingdom of love........
It happens in Gods own time, not ours, when we leave this earth to vacate into the heavens above..........
We can never predict when our time on earth is done, it will happen when weve completed our lessons here on earth ...........
Our spirit will be released to enter into Gods divine kingdom thats perfect and pure, just like we were at the moment of birth.......
I now realize that we are never far away from the ones who have passed before us, they are always by our side watching us grow and learn.........
Guiding us with their loving thoughts with hopes that we will prosper in our lives and succeed, as they observe us with concern......
We may never fully stop missing them, however, our connection with them will still exists in a different way as we continue our life........
Thinking of them daily, sending them our best with peace will keep the bond growing each day, will ease our sadness and strife.......
I now realize why God has each one of our lives so carefully planned out in his own timing for a specific reason.........
Giving our complete trust unto him is what he desires from us, with every season..........
We may never know the details of what his plans are for us in the future or why our lives are unique to perfection.........
Thanking him for each gift we receive through prayer shows appreciation To God as well as our affection........
Time To Heal 6/23/2011
When crisis occur in our lives and tragedy strikes home, it can be profoundly devastating. Most of us find ourselves in a whirlwind of emotion. Since each of us are all very different and unique in our own way, no two people will react in the same fashion. We all process information in our own unique way. What really matters is that, when we find these life altering tragedies that do happen, that we give ourselves time to process what has happened and take time for ourselves! We usually become so consumed with an overflow of emotions that we don't think about taking care of ourselves. First and foremost, we are responsibe for taking care of our own feelings and our overall well being. Nobody else can do that for us! When unexpected accidents of tragedy hits, it usually takes awhile to understand what has happened! In the case of loosing someone we love, we tend to block our emotions and hide them away because its too painful to face them. But, we don't realize how much more pain we will feel if we don't deal with our emotions head on!!! It takes time to heal, and time to deal with tragedy and loss. There's no way to predict how long the healing process takes when your heart is so full of sorrow and grief. We need to give ourselves the full opportunity to grieve in our own way. Even with other forms of loss, it takes awhile to go through the steps of recovery.
Be good to youreself and don't rush your feelings along the way. Feel each emotion! Don't hide your tears! God gave us tears to cleanse our soul and to wash away the pain! Let those tears flow generously! Crying will help get rid of the intense emotion you keep inside.
When crisis occur in our lives and tragedy strikes home, it can be profoundly devastating. Most of us find ourselves in a whirlwind of emotion. Since each of us are all very different and unique in our own way, no two people will react in the same fashion. We all process information in our own unique way. What really matters is that, when we find these life altering tragedies that do happen, that we give ourselves time to process what has happened and take time for ourselves! We usually become so consumed with an overflow of emotions that we don't think about taking care of ourselves. First and foremost, we are responsibe for taking care of our own feelings and our overall well being. Nobody else can do that for us! When unexpected accidents of tragedy hits, it usually takes awhile to understand what has happened! In the case of loosing someone we love, we tend to block our emotions and hide them away because its too painful to face them. But, we don't realize how much more pain we will feel if we don't deal with our emotions head on!!! It takes time to heal, and time to deal with tragedy and loss. There's no way to predict how long the healing process takes when your heart is so full of sorrow and grief. We need to give ourselves the full opportunity to grieve in our own way. Even with other forms of loss, it takes awhile to go through the steps of recovery.
Be good to youreself and don't rush your feelings along the way. Feel each emotion! Don't hide your tears! God gave us tears to cleanse our soul and to wash away the pain! Let those tears flow generously! Crying will help get rid of the intense emotion you keep inside.
Energy Around Us (6/23/2011)
Have you ever been around someone who you feel so uplifted and energized by? Just their mere presence gives you a sense of peace and a calm feeling. Their essence brings you to a place thats relaxed with positive vibrations. We all give off a certain vibration. Others around us can feel our energy, being either positive or negative. For those of us who send off negative energy, it also can very well be felt by others. There's certain people who you just feel uneasy around and actually become ill after speaking to them. Their negative essence literally makes you feel extremely sick to your stomach, a bad headache arises or other symptoms that you may physically feel. These negative vibrations are a warning to us, to stay away from this type of person. Their dark vibration will bring you down, drain you, and leave you with a bad feeling. I refer to these kinds of people as emotional blood suckers!! They truly suck the positive and good vibrations that we have right out of us. We don't even realize the harm it can do to us. Their words and actions are draining and harmful spiritually. We must block out these types of energy and mentally shield ourselves with a loving peaceful light from God. Its referred to as the shield of armour. Once we recognize these uneasy, odd feelings when we come across people with such a negative essence, we can quickly move away gracefully from their pressence to protect our well being. It's our responsibility to look out for our spiritual protection. May Gods loving light shine upon you and protect you.
A fathers day poem (6/23/2011)
I long to call you on the phone to wish you a beautiful day full of love and peace from all of us who love you so much...........
But, you're not here with us, you've gone away to your new home, we miss your voice and your loving touch......
I long to say good-night to you and tell you how much you are greatly appreciated and cherished each day........
But, you're not here with us, there's nothing more I can say.........
I long to bring your grand daughters to see you, as we always did before........
But, you've gone away to a better place, transitioned through that golden door........
I long to see your smiling face as we reminise about the girls and the cute things they do..........
I believe you're still with us in spirit, watching over us, smiling and saying I love you too.
I will always treasure our moments with you, forever and ever til we meet again with you someday........
You're loved so much by us all, forever til our time has ended , then we shall meet you on one fine day.......
Save us a special place in heaven right near you, so we can all be together and feel alive better than before........
We shall think of you always, today, tomorrow and forver more..........
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
For my father- Herbert Grant
In Honor Of My Dad (6/13/2011)
A Fathers Day Tribute
As I reflect back upon all the beautiful years spent with my dad, a wave of intense emotion engulfs my soul. Unforgettable memories start to surface. If I could only relive some of those special memories just one more time, I'd be so thankful.
My dads gentle, calm and kind spirit is being honored everyday for the outstanding person he was. We feel so blessed to have had my dads love and support for all these years. Fathers day was always a very important day to me as I was growing up, and throughout my adult life with my girls. We made sure we let my dad know how much he is loved and cherished. Last year as we celebrated Fathers day, there was a sense of sadness with a bittersweet feeling. Somehow, we knew this was going to be the last Fathers day for my dad with us. God was preparing us for the time when my dad would no longer be here. My dad also knew this was his last year. We embraced each moment of every day spent with my dad. I’m going to reflect on all the beautiful, unforgettable traits that made my dad so unique and so loved. Everyone who knew my dad would speak of his integrity and his honesty. There was never a time my dad lost his temper or let anyone get the best of him. He knew how to forgive and forget in all situations. My dad always treated each of us with respect and love. His loyalty to his friends and family was steadfast and very much appreciated by those who knew him. Living by the golden rule was certainly the way my dad lived his life, even up til the very end. He continued to show love and concern for us. My dad always gave so much of himself without expecting anything in return. His humble and humanitarian ways were amazing throughout his life. During my childhood, I felt like the luckiest girl in the world, having a dad so patient and understanding.
Going to amusement parks was something we did on a regular basis. We must have rode at least 50 roller coasters in my childhood. And, two years ago my dad and I took the girls and Aunt Donna to Sea World and he rode Journey to Atlantis with us!! Its a roller coaster that involves getting wet while speeding through water. He laughed and enjoyed the ride just as much as we did! Being at the circus was a yearly event for us through the years, along with numerous Disneyland trips, Going to the snow in the mountains, ice-skating, roller-skating, bike riding together, swimming in the pool my dad built me for when I was 5, endless barbecues, hiking at Balboa park when I was in elementary school, teaching me how to ride a bike without training wheels, numerous board games, ping pong, watching our favorite movies in elementary school..... Green Acres , Beverly Hillbillies, Lost in Space, Andy Griffith, Jackie Gleason, and there are countless other cherished memories that I’ve captured. There wasn’t anything my dad couldn't do for us! He put us first and foremost. What a loving, easy going person my dad has always been. It still amazes me how my dad always put everyone first, before himself! What beautiful cherished memories each of us have.
My dad was an avid golfer for more than 40 years. He won several trophies throughout his golfing days. What a great golfer he was! During his career working in the immigration service, he held a high position as District Director of Immigration. His fellow officers that he worked with and many in which he was in charge of all commented on how honored they were to work with my dad. His honesty and gentle mannerism went a long way!! My dad always put 100% into anything he set out to do. Being dependable was a given! My dad was extremely reliable in all aspects of his life.
We believe heaven is certainly a better place with my dad in it!! I have faith he is watching over us!! Towards the end of his life, he was in full acceptance of his illness which would eventually end his life here on earth, However, even though we miss my dad terribly and are full of sadness that he had to leave us physically, we have the best memories of him as a father, husband to my mom and grandfather to my girls. Nothing can ever separate our love for him and all our joyous memories. We will forever have a special connection with my dad. We will forever keep my dad in our hearts and continue to pray that he will stay near us. There are no words that could ever describe the loss and sadness we feel. Just knowing my dad is still watching over us gives a sense of comfort.
For those of you who are fortunate enough to still have your dad, treasure each moment with him like there’s no tomorrow. The pain and devastation you may feel once he is gone will change you in a significant way. Were never the same once we loose someone we love. Everything changes!! And, for me, my dad took part of my soul as he left us to transition into his final home in heaven. Everyday I honor my dads memory. He will stay deep in our hearts til we see him again, when our time on earth is done.
Written By- Brenda McBride
In loving memory of my father, Herbert Grant
A Fathers Day Tribute
As I reflect back upon all the beautiful years spent with my dad, a wave of intense emotion engulfs my soul. Unforgettable memories start to surface. If I could only relive some of those special memories just one more time, I'd be so thankful.
My dads gentle, calm and kind spirit is being honored everyday for the outstanding person he was. We feel so blessed to have had my dads love and support for all these years. Fathers day was always a very important day to me as I was growing up, and throughout my adult life with my girls. We made sure we let my dad know how much he is loved and cherished. Last year as we celebrated Fathers day, there was a sense of sadness with a bittersweet feeling. Somehow, we knew this was going to be the last Fathers day for my dad with us. God was preparing us for the time when my dad would no longer be here. My dad also knew this was his last year. We embraced each moment of every day spent with my dad. I’m going to reflect on all the beautiful, unforgettable traits that made my dad so unique and so loved. Everyone who knew my dad would speak of his integrity and his honesty. There was never a time my dad lost his temper or let anyone get the best of him. He knew how to forgive and forget in all situations. My dad always treated each of us with respect and love. His loyalty to his friends and family was steadfast and very much appreciated by those who knew him. Living by the golden rule was certainly the way my dad lived his life, even up til the very end. He continued to show love and concern for us. My dad always gave so much of himself without expecting anything in return. His humble and humanitarian ways were amazing throughout his life. During my childhood, I felt like the luckiest girl in the world, having a dad so patient and understanding.
Going to amusement parks was something we did on a regular basis. We must have rode at least 50 roller coasters in my childhood. And, two years ago my dad and I took the girls and Aunt Donna to Sea World and he rode Journey to Atlantis with us!! Its a roller coaster that involves getting wet while speeding through water. He laughed and enjoyed the ride just as much as we did! Being at the circus was a yearly event for us through the years, along with numerous Disneyland trips, Going to the snow in the mountains, ice-skating, roller-skating, bike riding together, swimming in the pool my dad built me for when I was 5, endless barbecues, hiking at Balboa park when I was in elementary school, teaching me how to ride a bike without training wheels, numerous board games, ping pong, watching our favorite movies in elementary school..... Green Acres , Beverly Hillbillies, Lost in Space, Andy Griffith, Jackie Gleason, and there are countless other cherished memories that I’ve captured. There wasn’t anything my dad couldn't do for us! He put us first and foremost. What a loving, easy going person my dad has always been. It still amazes me how my dad always put everyone first, before himself! What beautiful cherished memories each of us have.
My dad was an avid golfer for more than 40 years. He won several trophies throughout his golfing days. What a great golfer he was! During his career working in the immigration service, he held a high position as District Director of Immigration. His fellow officers that he worked with and many in which he was in charge of all commented on how honored they were to work with my dad. His honesty and gentle mannerism went a long way!! My dad always put 100% into anything he set out to do. Being dependable was a given! My dad was extremely reliable in all aspects of his life.
We believe heaven is certainly a better place with my dad in it!! I have faith he is watching over us!! Towards the end of his life, he was in full acceptance of his illness which would eventually end his life here on earth, However, even though we miss my dad terribly and are full of sadness that he had to leave us physically, we have the best memories of him as a father, husband to my mom and grandfather to my girls. Nothing can ever separate our love for him and all our joyous memories. We will forever have a special connection with my dad. We will forever keep my dad in our hearts and continue to pray that he will stay near us. There are no words that could ever describe the loss and sadness we feel. Just knowing my dad is still watching over us gives a sense of comfort.
For those of you who are fortunate enough to still have your dad, treasure each moment with him like there’s no tomorrow. The pain and devastation you may feel once he is gone will change you in a significant way. Were never the same once we loose someone we love. Everything changes!! And, for me, my dad took part of my soul as he left us to transition into his final home in heaven. Everyday I honor my dads memory. He will stay deep in our hearts til we see him again, when our time on earth is done.
Written By- Brenda McBride
In loving memory of my father, Herbert Grant
Giving Thanks 6/3/2011
Each day as I awake from sleep, I thank God for giving me this day. I ask him to give me patience, wisdom and guidance throughout my day. Also, I let him know that whatever comes my way, I know that with his abiding love I can do all things. When doubt or fear come into my mind, I ask God to help me over come the negative energy that is present! With prayer, I know I can get through any obstacles that may hinder my happiness. With loving thoughts in mind and having a peaceful, joyful spirit, my days are more enriched with the blessings of each day. I take the time to be thankful for little blessings. Without having a thankful heart with appreciation and gratitude, I know my life wouldnt be as blessed as it is today. Keeping all negative energy away makes a huge difference. I ask God to surround me and my family with a loving white light full of warmth and protection like a shield around us. Having positive thoughts and using positive words can surely bring out the good in all we do. When dealing with difficult situations, I try to have peace and a gentle spirit to combat the obstacles that can easily get in the way. As long as we have a kind and gentle spirit, our journey in life will be more peaceful with better results. Seeing the good in people is much better for everyone. Looking at only the bad side will bring a hateful, harsh feeling into relationships. Theres enough adversity in life without looking for more! With understanding and patience, we can have better friendships and relationships that will last.
Each day as I awake from sleep, I thank God for giving me this day. I ask him to give me patience, wisdom and guidance throughout my day. Also, I let him know that whatever comes my way, I know that with his abiding love I can do all things. When doubt or fear come into my mind, I ask God to help me over come the negative energy that is present! With prayer, I know I can get through any obstacles that may hinder my happiness. With loving thoughts in mind and having a peaceful, joyful spirit, my days are more enriched with the blessings of each day. I take the time to be thankful for little blessings. Without having a thankful heart with appreciation and gratitude, I know my life wouldnt be as blessed as it is today. Keeping all negative energy away makes a huge difference. I ask God to surround me and my family with a loving white light full of warmth and protection like a shield around us. Having positive thoughts and using positive words can surely bring out the good in all we do. When dealing with difficult situations, I try to have peace and a gentle spirit to combat the obstacles that can easily get in the way. As long as we have a kind and gentle spirit, our journey in life will be more peaceful with better results. Seeing the good in people is much better for everyone. Looking at only the bad side will bring a hateful, harsh feeling into relationships. Theres enough adversity in life without looking for more! With understanding and patience, we can have better friendships and relationships that will last.
The Gift Of Life 5/29/2011
We rarely stop to think about the lives of those we love and how their true existence has profound impact on our lives. We go about our busy days as if theres no tomorrow. Our hectic scheduals always seem to get in the way of what truly matters. But what we fail to realize is that what truly matters the most are the people in our lives who we love with all our heats. When the day is done, thats what really matters the most! Many a time, we forget to express our gratitude and love for the ones who mean the most to us. We dont stop to realize that there comes a time when that special someone may cease to exists. The true realization never comes to mind, much less to think about things that are hard to grasp. Most of us live for today and hardly spend the time we wish we could with those who mean the most. We dont show our appreciation or love as much as we should........ until, its too late!!!! Those painful moments come way too quick. Loosing someone is the most devastating event there could possibly be. All of a sudden, that person is not a part of our lives any more, they cease to exist! No more hugs or smiles or conversations on the phone. The realization hits us hard! Its like being hit by a two ton truck. Death sweeps us away quicker than a bolt of lightening. We think, if only i would have, could have, should have...... we beat ourselves up with the things that we wanted to do or say, but never got the chance!
The value of our friends and family is much greater than we may realize. We think they will live forever!! Nobody ever wants to admit that were not going to live forever. I know from personal experience the devastation of loosing a loved one. Its the most painful, engulfing, agonizing feeling! When death comes, its like a thief in the night. There's no turning back! Once we leave our physical bodies behind, there's no coming back...... in the physical sense. That person we love so much has transitioned into another dimension. God takes us when our journey has been completely. And when that time comes, the absense of that person can be painfully hard. We try so hard to recapture our moments together during the time spent with them, but, thats all we can do is recapture and remember those times. We try reaching out to them in ways that are unbelievable and do everything in our power to re-connect ourselves to them. Our pain is beyound comprehension as we realize our loved one is truly gone from us. The entire concept can be riveting with daggers cutting in our heart.
We must take notice and learn from the loss, that each moment is a gift! Each life is a gift! Death comes too fast, too often and way too quickly! Treasure those you love. Pray for the ones you don't love. We all are important in some way to somebody. Our true existence is a blessing in itself!
Gods Grace 5/24/2011
When you feel that life is just too much to bear, and the pain you endure is consuming you........
Look to the grace of God for guidance that will enlighten you and see you through.........
His gentle guiding hand will ease your pain as you travel down the roads endless hurdles that may come your way..........
Turn to the peace within your soul that God provides for those you come to him to pray.......
Your journey may seem endless as you travel along life's peeks and valleys to get to where you need to go......
Gods grace will save you from falling if you seek him in your heart, this I know.......
So when you feel tired and can't seem to accomplish all your goals from day to day without stress........
Reach out to God for strength and comfort as you awake each day, with prayer to confess......
In Gods glory, he will provide you with everything you will ever need as long as you have faith and trust.......
Giving yourself to him completely, praying for peace and love with honor in Gods glory is a must........
Don't let sorrow and sadness fill your soul with doubt or defeat from the past.....
Look to the future with an open heart, full of Gods glory that will forever last........
Your Guiding Light 5/23/2011
We all have an inner light deep inside of us that shines brightly in times of need.......
It shows us the way through life’s winding road with guidance, not greed......
We all know the right path to choose as our inner light shines upon our life with decisions that we make......
Being truthful to thyself as we discover life’s ups and downs, appreciating each moment as you awake.....
Follow your heart each step of the way and let your inner light shine upon those you love........
Be kind to one another, encourage the less fortunate and reach for the stars as you fly up above......
Don’t look back on what could have been or what you think things would be if you choose another road......
That’s yesterday, move ahead with love in your heart as you conquer your dreams with confidence that’s bold..
Your inner light will always take you to that safe place full of bliss and peace from within your mind......
Feeling good. full of joy, reflecting on those special moments of significance, sometimes hard to find......
But don’t forget, we all make choices that take us to the place where we are right now......
Stay close to those you love, let your inner light show you the way, so you’ll know how.....
We all have an inner light deep inside of us that shines brightly in times of need.......
It shows us the way through life’s winding road with guidance, not greed......
We all know the right path to choose as our inner light shines upon our life with decisions that we make......
Being truthful to thyself as we discover life’s ups and downs, appreciating each moment as you awake.....
Follow your heart each step of the way and let your inner light shine upon those you love........
Be kind to one another, encourage the less fortunate and reach for the stars as you fly up above......
Don’t look back on what could have been or what you think things would be if you choose another road......
That’s yesterday, move ahead with love in your heart as you conquer your dreams with confidence that’s bold..
Your inner light will always take you to that safe place full of bliss and peace from within your mind......
Feeling good. full of joy, reflecting on those special moments of significance, sometimes hard to find......
But don’t forget, we all make choices that take us to the place where we are right now......
Stay close to those you love, let your inner light show you the way, so you’ll know how.....
Healing 5/20/2011
As I reflect each morning on Gods blessings that surround me, I start to heal in some ways......
Appreciating the here and now and living life as it is for the moment and in the present days.........
Noticing the little ways I've changed which is leading to my growth in all that I do.......
Loving from the heart, being truthful and sincere to my love, giving joy to you........
Healing is a process that takes a bit of time, so don't be harsh or judge to quick in its course........
Be patient to thyself, and good to others who are healing in their own grief and remorse.........
Relax, concentrate on the positive aspect of life with goals to be met when healing starts to arise.......
Be truthful to yourself and others as you heal, express emotions that will help you soars to the skies......
Life is but a learning place for all of us to accomplish our many dreams as we walk along lifes road.......
Look at those who have departed, they are in divine bliss now with harmony, this I've been told.......
So, live each day to the fullest, as if you have no care in the world to think about or to linger in dismay........
Healing is upon you in the horizon, so keep going don't quit, you'll get there someday.........
Oneness 5/20/2011
We are all connected to one another in some way that can not be seen within the human eye..........
Loving from the heart, giving compassion to others who are in need, being truthful, telling no lie.........
Sharing emotions that you hold in your heart down deep by connecting to those you trust.....
Giving of yourself each day, showing kindness and gratitude is important and a must..........
Appreciating the little things that Gods put right in front of your path as you walk along lifes road of ups and downs........
Offering help to an old friend, some advise from your heart may ease ones pain and put a smile where there was a frown........
Realizing that we are all alike as humans but very different in some small ways.........
Sharing funny stories that warm your soul of the carefree and enchanting days..........
Reaching out to those who may be suffering in silence but need a helping hand to get by.......
Showing your loyalty to the one you love, being there for them when theyre down and ready to cry..........
It's all a part of connecting and being together in spirit in this life that we live.......
Being a part of someones dreams is rewarding as you grow together and give.........
We are all connected to one another in some way that can not be seen within the human eye..........
Loving from the heart, giving compassion to others who are in need, being truthful, telling no lie.........
Sharing emotions that you hold in your heart down deep by connecting to those you trust.....
Giving of yourself each day, showing kindness and gratitude is important and a must..........
Appreciating the little things that Gods put right in front of your path as you walk along lifes road of ups and downs........
Offering help to an old friend, some advise from your heart may ease ones pain and put a smile where there was a frown........
Realizing that we are all alike as humans but very different in some small ways.........
Sharing funny stories that warm your soul of the carefree and enchanting days..........
Reaching out to those who may be suffering in silence but need a helping hand to get by.......
Showing your loyalty to the one you love, being there for them when theyre down and ready to cry..........
It's all a part of connecting and being together in spirit in this life that we live.......
Being a part of someones dreams is rewarding as you grow together and give.........
Peace Like Never Before 5/20/2011
All human struggles are gone, no more pain that is faced from day to day ...........
Your earthly body was tired, it couldn't last any longer, you were ready to go on your way......
As you left, you felt peace like never before that filled your soul with pure love with a warm feeling.......
The pain was over, no more cancer to deal with, only pure joy and bliss that was revealing......
No more oxeygen to carry around with sadness of not being able to get up and go like before.......
You wanted to be free from this burden, to let go of it all with dignity as you descended through that golden door.....
As you left, you became engulfed with Gods love of being perfect, no more tears or sruggles to face.......
Your spirit entered into the most beautiful and joyful paradise with only goodness in heavens grace.......
All your frustrations have vanished and are no longer holding you down.........
You're the happiest at last gathered together with loved ones, not one frown.......
Behold the joy you feel so deep as you reunite with family and friends of your past.........
Earth is so temporary, it seems like a lifetime, its like a blink of an eye, it wont last........
Youll see us again when weve finished our journey here and our time is all through.........
Can't wait to be in your pressence and live a lifetime in happiness with you........
Written for- my dad
The Journey Of Grief 5/8/2011
Grieving for someone who was an important part of your life whom is no longer alive can be one of the most devastating and life changing events that a person will ever experience. The pain and anguish one feels from the loss is tremendous both mentally and emotionally. Each person travels on their own journey through the grieving process. Each and every emotion that’s felt is a process, one that will eventually lead to healing and being able to live again normally. For some, the process of grief is short lived. They experience their feelings and deal with all the emotions in a timely matter. Their journey doesn’t hinder their lives in any significant way, and they quickly move on . For others, the grief they feel is exhausting and draining each and every day. The process of dealing with the loss is too much to bear. Life just doesn’t feel the same without their loved one. The overwhelming feeling of sadness and disbelief is the main thought process that some feel. Their days followed by the death is full of fatigue, anger, perhaps guilt and all emotions that a person could possibly feel from the loss. Nothing is ever really the same after we loose someone we love with all our hearts and then, their gone from our sight physically. Their very existence is no longer a part of our world. We cant visually see them like before, or speak to them on the phone every day. Our hearts feel broken and we cant visualize life without them. But, what we don’t stop to realize is that, they are not gone from us completely. Our loved ones are right here with us through it all, trying to send comfort and loving energy. Just because we don’t see them physically doesn’t mean they’re not here with us. The pain gets so overwhelming from their absence, that we don’t stop to notice the subtle signs they send us. Each and every day, if you take some quiet time to notice their presence, you’ll be surprised to realize they’re not too far away. Unfortunately, grief takes up so much of our energy, that we are consumed by the sadness and loss. We get stuck in a rut and can't break through the dark side of grief. I’m speaking from experience. My dad has been gone from us physically that is for about 5 weeks now. I start to think I’m ok, then, boom.... I’m right back to point A at the disbelief stage. The journey of grief will be draining and full of twists and turns. You want to scream, cry, yell out why, but there’s no way of bringing your precious loved one back. Your journey starts to get a little better when you've processed the acceptance part and are taking baby steps to your reality of whats happened. Your thought process is moving along, still full of pain and sadness, but, making progress each day. We want so very much to see or hear our loved ones, and we start to realize they are around us. The core of our souls will always miss them as we move forward to regain our life. That numbness we once felt starts to diminish as the months go by. It may take a year or longer for some to begin to move on. Our coping skills get better as the years pass by, at least we hope!! Our loved ones who have passed will never stop loving us. All we have to do is pray for them, so they have the love they need to stay in Gods light and stay around us to comfort us through our journey in life. They know when our time is finished on earth, we will be reunited with them once again.
Grieving for someone who was an important part of your life whom is no longer alive can be one of the most devastating and life changing events that a person will ever experience. The pain and anguish one feels from the loss is tremendous both mentally and emotionally. Each person travels on their own journey through the grieving process. Each and every emotion that’s felt is a process, one that will eventually lead to healing and being able to live again normally. For some, the process of grief is short lived. They experience their feelings and deal with all the emotions in a timely matter. Their journey doesn’t hinder their lives in any significant way, and they quickly move on . For others, the grief they feel is exhausting and draining each and every day. The process of dealing with the loss is too much to bear. Life just doesn’t feel the same without their loved one. The overwhelming feeling of sadness and disbelief is the main thought process that some feel. Their days followed by the death is full of fatigue, anger, perhaps guilt and all emotions that a person could possibly feel from the loss. Nothing is ever really the same after we loose someone we love with all our hearts and then, their gone from our sight physically. Their very existence is no longer a part of our world. We cant visually see them like before, or speak to them on the phone every day. Our hearts feel broken and we cant visualize life without them. But, what we don’t stop to realize is that, they are not gone from us completely. Our loved ones are right here with us through it all, trying to send comfort and loving energy. Just because we don’t see them physically doesn’t mean they’re not here with us. The pain gets so overwhelming from their absence, that we don’t stop to notice the subtle signs they send us. Each and every day, if you take some quiet time to notice their presence, you’ll be surprised to realize they’re not too far away. Unfortunately, grief takes up so much of our energy, that we are consumed by the sadness and loss. We get stuck in a rut and can't break through the dark side of grief. I’m speaking from experience. My dad has been gone from us physically that is for about 5 weeks now. I start to think I’m ok, then, boom.... I’m right back to point A at the disbelief stage. The journey of grief will be draining and full of twists and turns. You want to scream, cry, yell out why, but there’s no way of bringing your precious loved one back. Your journey starts to get a little better when you've processed the acceptance part and are taking baby steps to your reality of whats happened. Your thought process is moving along, still full of pain and sadness, but, making progress each day. We want so very much to see or hear our loved ones, and we start to realize they are around us. The core of our souls will always miss them as we move forward to regain our life. That numbness we once felt starts to diminish as the months go by. It may take a year or longer for some to begin to move on. Our coping skills get better as the years pass by, at least we hope!! Our loved ones who have passed will never stop loving us. All we have to do is pray for them, so they have the love they need to stay in Gods light and stay around us to comfort us through our journey in life. They know when our time is finished on earth, we will be reunited with them once again.
Since You've Been Gone 5/2/2011
When you left on March 22, you took a big part of me with you. The very core of my soul went with you as you took your last breath with us as you entered into your eternal home. The struggle for you is over! What a blessing that is. You couldnt possibly stay another day, nor did we want you to linger anymore than you already had. God let you leave at the right moment, the right time. Your earthly body was finished, and you were so ready to move on into Gods kingdom. However, as you left us, something changed! Life seems a bit different in many ways. The atmosphere feels much different as we go on from day to day.
Your leaving has certainly effected our perspective in life...... because you're not here physically with us. We want to call you to say I love you, but, you're not here to pick up the phone! We long to hear your voice that once brought such joy. Since you've been gone, the sunlight isn't shining upon us as bright, nor does the stars twinkle as much as before. Our world feels a bit empty without you. Everything for us has changed since you've been gone...... You will always be missed by us as we go through life each day.
We understand completely why you had to leave at the time you left. Your journey here was finished. You graduated with honors !!! Throughout your life, you were an inspiration to others for your integrity and honesty. You gave from your heart to your family and friends, never expecting anything in return. How we long to see you again. Death didn't take you away completely...... we know we'll see you again in paradise.
Until then, we will feel you in the breeze and see you in our dreams. Our love for you will never die....... just like your beautiful spirit will never die. I know you'll be around us always giving out your love to us. There can never be a separation when you are connected to someone so close in mind and in your heart. God allows us to send you prayers so that you'll feel our energy touch you with warmth and joy. Just like you gave us all the days of your life here on earth. You are so special, and we know you have a special place in heaven . You will wipe away our tears with love as we heal each day and grow closer to you in spirit.
Christmas In Your Heart (12/15/10)
We all anticipate the joyous arrival of Christmas each year. Along with Christmas comes holiday festivities, glorious music, sparkling lights that tantilize our eyes, home-made pies with our favorite drinks that warm our soul. Apple cider and eggnog being a favorite. There's just so many holiday traditions that we look forward to each year. Lots of gift giving along with holiday parties, joyous music, tree decorating, preparing our favorite foods, and just sharing our moments with those we love. A time to give to those who are less fortunate. Being able to make time for our loved ones whom we hardly see throughout the year. Christmas time brings out many precious emotions that we all keep inside our heart. For some of us, its a time of solice and reflecting back on our memories of the past. We will always remember those who are no longer with us, but they are here in spirit. Aside from all the Christmas festivities that capture our attention, there's a deeper meaning to our Christmas holiday. The celebration of Jesus!! The day Jesus was born! The love we keep deep within that we share is in gods glory. All of these wonderful gifts of the season brings us to realize how special Christmas really is. A time when people come together to give of themselves without any expectation. Giving from the heart brings more joy than we may realize. Every day is a gift if you stop and think about it. Christmas doesn't have to be celebrated only once a year, it can be celebrated everyday!! Each day there's something to rejoice about. So when you have the need to give and be festive,consider that a celebration! The magic of Christmas is in your heart!
Magical Christmas Memories (12/15/10)
As I gaze up at the sparking bright Christmas tree, my mind brings me back in time to the days that seemed magical. Those enchanting childhood Christmas memories can still take my breath away and capture my memory as if it were just yesterday once again. We all keep our special, sacred memories of the past hidden in a safe place deep within. As I open up my Christmas memories of my childhood, I begin to reflect on our bright, amazing Christmas tree that everyone loved. The lights alone were as bright as a million stars glowing with warmth throughout the night. Christmas music filled our home with such a joyous feeling of happiness that the holidays were here! Every year my dad and I would decorate the tree which was so special for me. It would give us time together as we listened to the Christmas music and created a beautiful tree for us all to enjoy. My mom bought delicious Christmas candy every year that I always remember as being part of our Christmas holiday. The whole meaning of Christmas for me as a child was being happy with the feeling of being content while I anticipated santas arrival! We always had so many bright and colorful packages under the tree just waiting to be opened. Every year my dad took us to balboa park at night to see all the splendid Christmas lights and of course santas sleigh lite up with the reindeer. It was amazing to me and so magical! I was captured by all the fascinating sights that were there. It was a memorable event that I'll cherish forever! Overall, this time of year seemed so surreal to me. The joyous feeling all around made everyone seem carefree without a worry in the world. There's just something magical about childhood Christmas memories! When our parents were young and healthy, and we had no real worries! The fresh scent of pine smelled sweet and certainly was a cozy, fresh fragrance. Life was easy then. As a child, the whole concept of Christmas was fascinating in every way. Those memories will stay deep within my heart always.
IN A MOMENTS NOTICE (11/30/10)
A moment in your life can change drastically like a thief in the night who comes out of the blue.....
The swift currant that is engulfed by a moment can approach the best of us, as well as me and you.....
Within a moments notice, the best of life's blessings can change in an instant due to circumstances unknown.....
Enjoy the gifts that life has brought you without worry of tomorrow as you look ahead to see how you've grown.....
Within a moments notice, your surroundings can change and become unfamiliar to what you may expect in this life that you live.....
New beginnings are part of the circle of life, so open your heart to new opportunity, you have so much to give.....
Enjoy the smallest of blessings that come your way, ones that you may hardly even notice at all.....
It's the subtle gifts that we receive that blesses us in more ways we may know, giving us strength, even when we fall.....
Appreciating cherished moments shared by family and friends is a gift to savor close in our heart.....
Treasuring their presence in every way, touching you deeply, remembering those moments when you are apart.....
Within a moments notice, our loved ones may fall ill in a devastating way that engulfs your spirit with sadness beyond compare.....
Hold your head high with great trust that God will see you through this trial and pain and remember he's always there.....
New light will shine in your heart if you believe in miracles that can happen each and every day.....
Thinking positive in all you do, projecting good thoughts to those you love will help you in a amazing way.....
The swift currant that is engulfed by a moment can approach the best of us, as well as me and you.....
Within a moments notice, the best of life's blessings can change in an instant due to circumstances unknown.....
Enjoy the gifts that life has brought you without worry of tomorrow as you look ahead to see how you've grown.....
Within a moments notice, your surroundings can change and become unfamiliar to what you may expect in this life that you live.....
New beginnings are part of the circle of life, so open your heart to new opportunity, you have so much to give.....
Enjoy the smallest of blessings that come your way, ones that you may hardly even notice at all.....
It's the subtle gifts that we receive that blesses us in more ways we may know, giving us strength, even when we fall.....
Appreciating cherished moments shared by family and friends is a gift to savor close in our heart.....
Treasuring their presence in every way, touching you deeply, remembering those moments when you are apart.....
Within a moments notice, our loved ones may fall ill in a devastating way that engulfs your spirit with sadness beyond compare.....
Hold your head high with great trust that God will see you through this trial and pain and remember he's always there.....
New light will shine in your heart if you believe in miracles that can happen each and every day.....
Thinking positive in all you do, projecting good thoughts to those you love will help you in a amazing way.....
CELEBRATE THE DAY (11/14/10)
With each passing day, there's new challenges and choices to be made.....
Don't let yourself be discouraged, walk in faith with each step you take, be not afraid.....
There's far more beauty to notice than to ponder on things yet to come.....
Celebrate the day for it's goodness as well as remembering great things you have done.....
Look around you and take notice of the small blessings which are gifts that life brings.....
Just like the warmth of the sun that shines upon us as the birds harmonize together to sing.....
The gifts that are around us are truly endless with unique joy that's given, each and every day.....
Just take notice to what's in sight for the things you may not realize are unique in a special way.....
Celebrate the joys that life has given you in appreciation and gratitude for it's presence is yours to take hold.....
There's much more in life to explore beyond your comprehension to the endless possible opportunity waiting outside.....
Grab it while you can with love in your heart as you continue your journey with a smile you can't hide.....
Don't let yourself be discouraged, walk in faith with each step you take, be not afraid.....
There's far more beauty to notice than to ponder on things yet to come.....
Celebrate the day for it's goodness as well as remembering great things you have done.....
Look around you and take notice of the small blessings which are gifts that life brings.....
Just like the warmth of the sun that shines upon us as the birds harmonize together to sing.....
The gifts that are around us are truly endless with unique joy that's given, each and every day.....
Just take notice to what's in sight for the things you may not realize are unique in a special way.....
Celebrate the joys that life has given you in appreciation and gratitude for it's presence is yours to take hold.....
There's much more in life to explore beyond your comprehension to the endless possible opportunity waiting outside.....
Grab it while you can with love in your heart as you continue your journey with a smile you can't hide.....
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE (11/13/10)
We all know that good things come to those who wait, at least that's what I believe.....
Having faith and belief in all you do will bring you a sense of peace and patience to receive.....
Waiting for that special someone to enter into your life is a gift that two can share.....
Believing in destiny as you patiently wait for your special soul mate to arrive and care.....
Patience builds character while you're waiting for the important things in life to take hold.....
Feeling peace within and knowing that your future is yours to discover as you enter the threshold.....
To succeed is a blessing that reflects your hard work and diligence to get to the finish line.....
Patience is a virtue to each one of us as we face challenges in life and do well, time after time.....
Waiting for a long awaited letter can certainly be a challenge to test our patience in the right way.....
We all have our dead lines to meet each and every day as we hope to succeed on one fine day.....
So learn to be patient, calm and serene, as you take steps ahead to live your best.....
Don't worry about the others, they will learn lessons too, carry on with your life with all the rest!
Having faith and belief in all you do will bring you a sense of peace and patience to receive.....
Waiting for that special someone to enter into your life is a gift that two can share.....
Believing in destiny as you patiently wait for your special soul mate to arrive and care.....
Patience builds character while you're waiting for the important things in life to take hold.....
Feeling peace within and knowing that your future is yours to discover as you enter the threshold.....
To succeed is a blessing that reflects your hard work and diligence to get to the finish line.....
Patience is a virtue to each one of us as we face challenges in life and do well, time after time.....
Waiting for a long awaited letter can certainly be a challenge to test our patience in the right way.....
We all have our dead lines to meet each and every day as we hope to succeed on one fine day.....
So learn to be patient, calm and serene, as you take steps ahead to live your best.....
Don't worry about the others, they will learn lessons too, carry on with your life with all the rest!
BEAUTY LIKE NO OTHER (11/9/10)
As I drink my morning coffee out side in the patio, I gaze up at the delicate chirping birds above me, watching them joyfully in flight....
Their petite small frame captivates me with amazement as I listen to their chirping and centering my thoughts on them in sight.....
I realize their beauty is so unique by far and precious in nature for their tiny existence and beautiful sounds they make so rare.....
I feel blessed to feel the joy they bring and to have two strong eyes to see their delightfulness I appreciate right out there.....
If you've ever watched them closely, you'll notice their swift but graceful moves that are compelling to watch as they fly.....
I observe each lovely bird in flight as I gaze with amazement far up in the sky.....
So let's appreciate each and every part of nature and admire our precious animals too for the beauty they bring.....
Especially the ones that fly above us with grace and serenade us as they sing.....
Their petite small frame captivates me with amazement as I listen to their chirping and centering my thoughts on them in sight.....
I realize their beauty is so unique by far and precious in nature for their tiny existence and beautiful sounds they make so rare.....
I feel blessed to feel the joy they bring and to have two strong eyes to see their delightfulness I appreciate right out there.....
If you've ever watched them closely, you'll notice their swift but graceful moves that are compelling to watch as they fly.....
I observe each lovely bird in flight as I gaze with amazement far up in the sky.....
So let's appreciate each and every part of nature and admire our precious animals too for the beauty they bring.....
Especially the ones that fly above us with grace and serenade us as they sing.....
YOUR UNIQUE JOURNEY (11/9/10)
The journey you choose to experience is all your own. your adventure that's like no other, one that's surreal as well as amazing with challenges as you live each day.....
Moments you've created for your journey with people you've chosen to experience adventures with in this world we live, and so much to say.....
Your choices will lead you exactly where you wish to go, some of which will be a wrong turn on a winding road in the circle of life.....
Faced with adversity in front of you, trying to regain yourself again, getting rid of negativity and strife.....
The journey you chose will allow you to make mistakes along the way, figure them out to what's best, then decide the steps that's right for you.....
Moments ahead may be challenging, as well as revealing to you destiny in your journey that lies ahead, don't feel blue.....
Your choices will bring you happiness as well as bliss as you travel along the winding road that's all your own from the inside looking in.....
Bright lights may warn you what lies ahead on your journey that you've chosen, perhaps in a subtle way to help you realize what's best.....
Moments ahead may be surreal, crashing down upon you, keep on going my friend, you're unique like all the rest.....
The warmth of true love is something you choose as a gift to enlighten the depths of your heart and soul.....
Making life beautiful, feeling their touch upon your hand is awesome ,k as your bliss rises with emotion, feeling so whole.....
Your choices are unique in every which way, so choose them wisely as you proceed on your journey of life, in the here and now.....
We are all responsible for what happens to us, hard to believe but true, bet you're wondering how!!
Enjoy your unique journey!!! Remember it's all your own!!
Moments you've created for your journey with people you've chosen to experience adventures with in this world we live, and so much to say.....
Your choices will lead you exactly where you wish to go, some of which will be a wrong turn on a winding road in the circle of life.....
Faced with adversity in front of you, trying to regain yourself again, getting rid of negativity and strife.....
The journey you chose will allow you to make mistakes along the way, figure them out to what's best, then decide the steps that's right for you.....
Moments ahead may be challenging, as well as revealing to you destiny in your journey that lies ahead, don't feel blue.....
Your choices will bring you happiness as well as bliss as you travel along the winding road that's all your own from the inside looking in.....
Bright lights may warn you what lies ahead on your journey that you've chosen, perhaps in a subtle way to help you realize what's best.....
Moments ahead may be surreal, crashing down upon you, keep on going my friend, you're unique like all the rest.....
The warmth of true love is something you choose as a gift to enlighten the depths of your heart and soul.....
Making life beautiful, feeling their touch upon your hand is awesome ,k as your bliss rises with emotion, feeling so whole.....
Your choices are unique in every which way, so choose them wisely as you proceed on your journey of life, in the here and now.....
We are all responsible for what happens to us, hard to believe but true, bet you're wondering how!!
Enjoy your unique journey!!! Remember it's all your own!!
THE BLESSINGS OF FALL (11/5/10)
The cool, crisp air of fall has arrived to greet us and to welcome the blessings of the season with beauty all around.....
An abundance of seasonal traditions are out, reminding us of special blessings we have found.....
Leaves of orange and yellow leaves look so vibrant and alive in color reflecting such beauty all their own.....
Just look around you, you'll notice the simple pleasures of our season just right outside your home.....
This time of the year brings a feeling of warmth and love in our hearts if we dare to look around and take hold.....
The joy of the season lives within our hearts always, tucked away waiting to share our stories as we grow old.....
The aroma of freshly baked pies will awake your senses as you indulge in some tasty baked treats with the ones you love so much.....
Sharing together special memories will lighten your heart and add sparkle to your day with a special touch.....
So embrace the seasons traditions with good cheer and blessings to all you know and hold close to your heart.....
Celebrate the things you are thankful for with gratitude, appreciation and joy that will never part.....
An abundance of seasonal traditions are out, reminding us of special blessings we have found.....
Leaves of orange and yellow leaves look so vibrant and alive in color reflecting such beauty all their own.....
Just look around you, you'll notice the simple pleasures of our season just right outside your home.....
This time of the year brings a feeling of warmth and love in our hearts if we dare to look around and take hold.....
The joy of the season lives within our hearts always, tucked away waiting to share our stories as we grow old.....
The aroma of freshly baked pies will awake your senses as you indulge in some tasty baked treats with the ones you love so much.....
Sharing together special memories will lighten your heart and add sparkle to your day with a special touch.....
So embrace the seasons traditions with good cheer and blessings to all you know and hold close to your heart.....
Celebrate the things you are thankful for with gratitude, appreciation and joy that will never part.....
EMOTIONS OF A TEARDROP (11/02/10)
Our inner most feelings and thoughts are kept deep inside within our spirit hidden in a far away place.......
We store scared memories of the past in a safe comfort zone that's often hard to trace.........
Great emotions come from within ourselves, erupting like an enormous tidal wave that brings us to tears......
A huge currant of thoughts come upon us with such force, bringing out what's deep inside our hidden fears......
Our emotions are full of power that's engulfed in our minds like a river flowing swiftly down the stream to its destiny with perfect flow........
Teardrops can be healing to us we realize our pain is only in passing, as we proceed to go........
Sadness can trigger the ever flowing abundance of teardrops pouring down like a heavy rainfall in spring......
Coping with your feelings is the steps of moving on and becoming one with yourself from what you bring......
Teardrops are a part of our inner self that burst out sometimes when we least expect it to appear in it's powerful way......
Focus on better days ahead when life is peaceful and joy resides within our day.........
So when teardrops get the best of you and emotions are flying everywhere with such force and feeling......
Smile and realize to yourself, teardrops are just a part of our soul when emotions are revealing.......
We store scared memories of the past in a safe comfort zone that's often hard to trace.........
Great emotions come from within ourselves, erupting like an enormous tidal wave that brings us to tears......
A huge currant of thoughts come upon us with such force, bringing out what's deep inside our hidden fears......
Our emotions are full of power that's engulfed in our minds like a river flowing swiftly down the stream to its destiny with perfect flow........
Teardrops can be healing to us we realize our pain is only in passing, as we proceed to go........
Sadness can trigger the ever flowing abundance of teardrops pouring down like a heavy rainfall in spring......
Coping with your feelings is the steps of moving on and becoming one with yourself from what you bring......
Teardrops are a part of our inner self that burst out sometimes when we least expect it to appear in it's powerful way......
Focus on better days ahead when life is peaceful and joy resides within our day.........
So when teardrops get the best of you and emotions are flying everywhere with such force and feeling......
Smile and realize to yourself, teardrops are just a part of our soul when emotions are revealing.......
DEDICATED TO MY FATHER (10/15/10)
A FATHER WHO IS FULL OF PATIENCE, LOVE AND RESPECT IS HOW I THINK OF MY DADS ATTRIBUTES AND HIS UNIQUE SPECIAL WAYS.............
I AM SO BLESSED TO HAVE SUCH A GIVING, JOYFUL FATHER WHO BRINGS SUNSHINE AND COMFORT TO US ALL THROUGHOUT HIS DAYS............
HIS OUTLOOK ON LIFE IS AMAZING WITH AN ESSENCE THAT IS SO SINCERE AND SO TRUE FROM HIS HEART....................
MY LIFE HAS BEEN ENRICHED WITH MEANING FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER AS A CHILD, RIGHT FROM THE START................
MY FATHER ADDS SO MUCH TO OUR LIVES THROUGH THE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS THAT WE FACE FROM DAY TO DAY.............
A TEAR FALLS FROM MY EYE REFLECTING ON MY DADS GOODNESS AND COMPASSION BEYOUND BELIEF IN SUCH A SPECIAL WAY................
HIS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY HAS BROUGHT US TRUE JOY AND A FEELING OF BEING SAFE THROUGHOUT THE YEARS..............
I THINK OF ALL MY DAD HAS DONE FOR US, FEELING SO BLESSED AND PROUD IN MY HEART, EMOTION STIRS INSIDE WITH TEARS..........
A FATHER WHO NEVER GIVES UP ON HIS DREAMS OR ABILITY TO ENCOURAGE US IN ALL WE DO............
HIS WORDS ARE FULL OF WISDOM AS HE SHARES HIS COMPASSION TO STRIVE FOR THE BEST IN WHAT WE PURSUE............
TO BELIEVE IN OURSELVES NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN LIFE, TO KEEP OUR HEAD UP AS WE PULL THROUGH ..............
MY LIFE HAS BEEN MUCH BETTER BECAUSE OF MY DADS CONSISTENT ENCOURAGEMENT AND HIS LOVE TOO...........
MY FATHER WILL ALWAYS BE MY HERO, TODAY, TOMORROW AND ALWAYS IN MY HEART FOREVER MORE IN MY LIFE..........
I'LL REMEMBER HIS EXAMPLE WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND IM FACED WITH OBSTACLES AND STRIFE...........
HIS STRONG INFLUENCE WILL GUIDE ME THROUGH THE JOYFUL CELEBRATIONS THAT ILL EXPERIENCE IN THE TIMES TO COME........
I'LL ALWAYS BE PROUD OF MY DAD, FOR WHO HE IS AS A PERSON AND I'LL SMILE WITH PEACE WHEN THE DAY IS DONE............
WRITTEN ESPECIALLY FOR MY SPECIAL DAD!!!!!BY- BRENDA
THE HUMAN SPIRIT (10/8/10)
We never stop to think about the depth of our true existence here on earth as our spirit thrives from day to day...............
Facing trials and tribulations as we go along, dealing with lifes winding roads as we are challenged, each in a different way............
We never truly realize how precious time is and the essence of each soul we touch in the midst of our journey here on earth...........
Each moment is precious in its unique way, just like our spirit thats reborn again and starting new on its journey from birth...........
We all leave sacred footprints behind, as we graduate and learn our life long lessons that were meant for us to conquer and rise above.........
We never stop to realize the power in kind words, a simple smile, along with the healing of human touch and the desire for love..........
Each passing day spent with your loved ones brings memories that will last a lifetime and engulf your spirit with joy beyond compare..........
We never truly stop to think how short life is and how quick our moments pass by like a flash of lightning in the sky thats sudden then gone from sight.......
Each one of us is like a burst of lightning with an enormous amount of energy full of power that descends high with all our strength and might........
Facing tomorrow can be a mystery to us as we proceed down the long and winding road not knowing where your destination may lead.......
We all need to be nurtured, feel joy in our hearts, worthy to be alive without feeling anger in our spirit, no hate or greed.........
We never will truly know when our time has ended here on earth and our destination to exit is right around the corner from where we are now.......
Each one of us has a purpose and a plan to follow, so proceed ahead my friend without fear or contempt and youll reach your journeys end with a bow....
Facing trials and tribulations as we go along, dealing with lifes winding roads as we are challenged, each in a different way............
We never truly realize how precious time is and the essence of each soul we touch in the midst of our journey here on earth...........
Each moment is precious in its unique way, just like our spirit thats reborn again and starting new on its journey from birth...........
We all leave sacred footprints behind, as we graduate and learn our life long lessons that were meant for us to conquer and rise above.........
We never stop to realize the power in kind words, a simple smile, along with the healing of human touch and the desire for love..........
Each passing day spent with your loved ones brings memories that will last a lifetime and engulf your spirit with joy beyond compare..........
We never truly stop to think how short life is and how quick our moments pass by like a flash of lightning in the sky thats sudden then gone from sight.......
Each one of us is like a burst of lightning with an enormous amount of energy full of power that descends high with all our strength and might........
Facing tomorrow can be a mystery to us as we proceed down the long and winding road not knowing where your destination may lead.......
We all need to be nurtured, feel joy in our hearts, worthy to be alive without feeling anger in our spirit, no hate or greed.........
We never will truly know when our time has ended here on earth and our destination to exit is right around the corner from where we are now.......
Each one of us has a purpose and a plan to follow, so proceed ahead my friend without fear or contempt and youll reach your journeys end with a bow....
The Power in Miracles ( 9/16/10)
Sometimes in life, something out of the ordinary will happen to you that's so amazing and unbelievable it will engulf you with great emotion and miraculously change you life in the most significant way. These occurrences that come to us are truly blessings which I call "Miracles". When these life changing miracles take hold, appreciate them of your heart and savor its arrival. So if you've given up on yourself or on a dream, look ahead to what the future can hold. Nothing is impossible in this life! It's the slightest, small surprises that sometimes empower us the most. So cherish each day to the fullest, as we endure life's ups and downs. In our most difficult trials is when we learn to appreciate the joys and pleasures in life!
Miracles may come to you in all forms. It can reveal itself in a way you couldn't possibly imagine. For myself, I believe prayer has a tremendous amount of power that can make anything happen. The power in prayer is unbelievable and so real to those who believe in prayer. Miracles tend to show themselves to those who believe that the impossible is certainly "possible". Each day is truly one of life's gifts. I consider the birthing process a miracle for everything it is! Let's take notice of all life's joys and notice the little miracles in our lives. Cheers to miracles!
Miracles may come to you in all forms. It can reveal itself in a way you couldn't possibly imagine. For myself, I believe prayer has a tremendous amount of power that can make anything happen. The power in prayer is unbelievable and so real to those who believe in prayer. Miracles tend to show themselves to those who believe that the impossible is certainly "possible". Each day is truly one of life's gifts. I consider the birthing process a miracle for everything it is! Let's take notice of all life's joys and notice the little miracles in our lives. Cheers to miracles!
A Winters Night (added8/21/10)
As the galiant moon shines brighty upon the land, the cool, crisp air relentlessly brushes through the trees without a sound....
The chill from the breeze is icy cold as we gaze at the stars and moon, so round.......
Brightness fills the sky with wonder and a sparkling iridescent glow across the land, reaching out from its own galaxy high above.......
The solitude of night is so peaceful, so serene, like a beautiful flying dove........
Then comes the rainfall, so joyful to watch as Mother Nature brings down the sparkling crystal drops of water so fine.....
Gazing upon its beauty, as the rain briskly comes down falling on the trees of pine.........
Rejoicing in the moment, admiring each little raindrop that falls upon you........
Feeling blessed to be alive, do you feel that way too?
The chill from the breeze is icy cold as we gaze at the stars and moon, so round.......
Brightness fills the sky with wonder and a sparkling iridescent glow across the land, reaching out from its own galaxy high above.......
The solitude of night is so peaceful, so serene, like a beautiful flying dove........
Then comes the rainfall, so joyful to watch as Mother Nature brings down the sparkling crystal drops of water so fine.....
Gazing upon its beauty, as the rain briskly comes down falling on the trees of pine.........
Rejoicing in the moment, admiring each little raindrop that falls upon you........
Feeling blessed to be alive, do you feel that way too?
Seasons (added8/14/10)
We've all heard the saying, "seasons come and seasons go". But have you ever stopped to really think about the true meaning? As for myself, I never gave it much thought , until........a good friend of mine, Marcia, brought it up in a conversation. I was feeling down about some circumstances that had ended. Marcia made me realize that everything in life changes and when something ends, there's a new beginning that waits ahead in your future. It made a lot of sense as well as the comfort her words put in my heart. Life has many seasons for all of us. People we love are with us for a limited amount of time, then when they pass on or move on, their season with you has ended. My friend encourages me to not let my emotions get out of hand, but to accept all the changes that I'll face in this life time. We all should have friends like Marcia who are a positive part of our life. Loving someone and giving them your heart in friendship or in marriage is a beautiful gift. But to experience the loss when it's over is devastating. Marcia is a good example of accepting what life brings. We learn lessons from each season to the next. Life is merely a season, then comes the time to vacate our body to move on to the next season which is death. but death is not the end! I believe it's the beginning of a beautiful, peaceful season all its own. So if you're fortunate enough to experience life's seasons with someone you love, including close friends and family, then your journey will be more gratifying and bearable. Let your journey begin!!
The Essence of A Memory
Reflecting back in time on treasured, heartfelt memories that captured your inner self so deep.............
Emotions start to stir inside, as you ponder upon those moments youve tucked away to keep............
Like a huge tidal wave that crashes with enormous energy leaving an image of its strength and power behind..........
The memories you store within may be intense or perhaps too hard to find........
The pure joy that a single memory can bring is a gift all your very own........
Only you can relive those special times, cherished thoughts of the past, days of your childhood with family, living at home........
The beautiful fragrance of your mothers favorite perfume may linger in thought or the warm aroma of a freshly baked apple pie brings you back to the day.........
When life was simple, worries were few, the happy and carefree moments we knew of yesterday...........
Hold those memories close to you as you face tomorrows challeges and triumps with courage and a smile........
At the end of your journey, youll remember what meant most and realize it was all so worthwhile!!!!!!
Written by, Brenda McBride
Living In The Moment
As you reflect back in time, you may recall moments when you pondered upon the past. Maybe you wondered if you did things differently, you'd be more successful or perhaps happier. Our choices we've made bring us to the place where we are today. You may regret some of your choices of the past. But, you must realize all we really have at this very moment is the essence of NOW!!!! The here and now is what really matters . To enjoy each moment is purely a gift. Appreciating the beauty that surrounds you each day with happiness and contentment of where you are right now. Cherishing our family and close friends is so important! We don't really know what tomorrow may bring. It is merely a dream waiting to happen! We can plan for tomorrow all we want, hoping to be successful and secure in our decisions and choices. But, its the essence of today that captures our reality. Lets live today with zest and love in our hearts! Dare not to dream the impossible! Its up to you to thrive with passion and faith for tomorrows dreams. We can all be what we strive for! With lots of courage and confidence in our own strength, we can be the best!! All it takes is the seed of faith of today that will carry you down the road of tomorrow. So while you're on your journey, take the extra time to notice those little things in life. Youll be surprised of all the beauty youve never noticed before! And when your day is done, youll realize the true essence of simple joy.
Believing in Miracles
Most of us are devastated beyound compare with these horrific, difficult
economic hardships we are facing. We ask ourselves, will things eventually
improve in time and get better? With all the budget cuts and layoffs, it has
been one of the hardest few years for many of us. So many of us find ourselves
at the lowest financial crash! If youre feeling despair and stress over the
situation youre in, youre not alone!! However, you must realize , things can
only get better! Theres a light waiting to be found at the end of that dark
tunnel. Maybe theres a significant lesson to be learned? A lesson that will
impact your life for the better as you realize what counts most! We all want
financial stability. We start to turn within ourselves and discover the
importance of family and friends. The love we share with our spouse and children
become more important as we draw close to one another for support. The kindness
and compassion we share together will help us get through these horrific times.
During hardships, theres a sense of self awarenes that happens that we never
noticed before. An inner strength is discovered. So, in the midst of all these
uncertain times, you may find that innermost strength that youll discover. We
all have it, but perhaps havent yet found it. Look ahead with an optimitic
outlook! Theres better days that are waiting to be found! With faith and
courage, miracles can happen!
Written By, Brenda McBride
Ceremony Of Love
As the wedding march begins its gallient music, the excitement starts to build as many emotions fill the air.......... Great energy surrounds the crowd as the Bride takes her first feeEw steps down the isle without a care....... The groom is waiting anxiously for his future soul mate to complete her walk down the isle to be by his side....... He is engulfed with such joy in his heart along with such happiness and pride........ The two are standing together, ready to embark on their journey of love that will hopefully last a long time....... Ready for the big step, the commitment they are about to make when the vows are made, feeling so fine........ Their ceremony of love is an indication of loyalty, truth and being bonded together as one for the rest of theie days....... Joining their hearts together with their souls as they journey through life and experience many things in different ways..... This commitment is sacred as well as sincere for the remaining of their time they spend here on earth....... Raising a family together is a special bond shared by two, created by love, then comes the miracle of birth........ So lets live long and to our fullest as we walk down the path that may have its ups and downs each and every day........ Have faith in each other as you experience your life walking side by side, laugh often, love much and listen in a special way....... Written By, Brenda Mcbride [email protected]
Father's Day Tribute
I can always remember only good , positive and encouraging times weve spent together from when i was just small...........
Youre a blessing to me more than i can say, from teaching me values and leasons to be learned, or just out in the yard playing ball..........
A child needs a strong parent who truly cares for them in all they do, from the depth of their heart.........
That parent stands by their side through it all, during the times that are hard as well as the celebrations and challeges from the start...........
I can say only the very best about my dad, for many reasons in so many different ways.........
Hes always uplifting in spirit and so kind in his manner, throughout all of his days.......
I feel so honored to have such an exceptional dad who has given more than enough of his time and his love.......
Special qualities ill always remember , like honesty and integrity , along with life lessons that are unique like a beautriful dove...........
So lets honor our dads for all that they do and for all their sacrifices that theyve made to make our lives a happy and secure place to live......
Our dads are special people , so lets show them appreciation and a loving heart thats also willing to give!!
written by, Brenda Mcbride
Youre a blessing to me more than i can say, from teaching me values and leasons to be learned, or just out in the yard playing ball..........
A child needs a strong parent who truly cares for them in all they do, from the depth of their heart.........
That parent stands by their side through it all, during the times that are hard as well as the celebrations and challeges from the start...........
I can say only the very best about my dad, for many reasons in so many different ways.........
Hes always uplifting in spirit and so kind in his manner, throughout all of his days.......
I feel so honored to have such an exceptional dad who has given more than enough of his time and his love.......
Special qualities ill always remember , like honesty and integrity , along with life lessons that are unique like a beautriful dove...........
So lets honor our dads for all that they do and for all their sacrifices that theyve made to make our lives a happy and secure place to live......
Our dads are special people , so lets show them appreciation and a loving heart thats also willing to give!!
written by, Brenda Mcbride
Connecting Together
For those of you who have loved one in your family who has cancer, alzheimers, dementia, or any other devastating illness, you know the overwhelming feelings of sadness that takes a hold of your heart. Many of us tend to close off our deepest emotions and bury them inside. Our spirit looses its zest as we try to face the reality thats engulfed our emotions. We are up against a ton of fears and questions about our loved ones situation. We need to connect together with others who may be going through the same devastation as you. Perhaps talking to a pastor or priest or a doctor about this very difficult situation. Keeping all those thoughts and feelings of sadness to yourself will only make you feel isolated. Perhaps a support group would be beneficial. The future for your loved one may seem bleek. I know this to be true! My father has cancer and was diagnosed about 8 years ago. He responded very well to harmone therapy for the first few years. His cancer was in remission for several years. Currently, his cancer has returned, and he's been having chemotherapy since last October. My father has an amazing attitude and is very strong. He's faced several severe health problems in the past year, but has bounced back each time. I've held my breath each and every time! Faith has gotten us through these devastating moments, and a lot of tissues to wipe my tears! Ive cried hundreds of tears, enough to fill the ocean! My energy has been zapped with despair and worry. My emotions were flying everywhere! So if you notice a decline in your energy level, its all related to worry and fear. Sharing your feelings is the best thing and staying in touch with those you can trust with your emotions. Keeping up your strength is so vital! We must take care of ourselves physically and emotionally so we can have the courage to go forward and be strong. Its easy to loose sight of ourself when were so overcome with worry. Many days and nights were consumed with an abundance of sad thoughts and despair. My father is currently still having chemotherapy and is doing okay. We will find out on the 10th of this month if his cancer has spread to any bones or organs. I'm in fear for the worst! But, I'm able to take better care of myself with excersize and getting enough rest along with eating balanced meals, and trying to have courage. Facing each new day with hope and faith, and making the best out of this situation. I still have a good cry once or twice a week, but thats okay. As long as we can strive together and comfort eachother at our most painful moments. Thats a gift in itself! Staying connected to friends and family who love us. Thats what makes life worth living! Written by: Brenda McBride
Sunrise, Sunset
As the sun rises in the wee hours of morning, a new life is being born and getting ready to start a long journey all their own........... This new little spirit will be experiencing a whole new realm in this life, a family and hopefully a loving home....... As the sun descends in the north , another life is coming to the end, his time here on earth has been full in every way....... Hes preparing to enter into a new dimension, one thats a mystery for most, full of promise and hope as he awaits to descend any day....... Our life spent here is merely a quick flash, like an everlasting dream that seems to continue in our spectrum of time........ If we could only comprehend our brief encounter as we live each day, hopefully to the fullest, we'd cherish our moments, yours and mine....... Our life spent here together would be full with love and neverending hope for mankind, as we endure our memories weve had....... Dont look back with regret but treasure the memories of the past and remember each one like a special rose and dont be sad......... Our journey in life is so different and unique for each of us, however, the peaks and valleys are familiar to all who have felt a loss so real...... The devastation we must face when we loose our loved ones is unspoken, a pain like no other, so we carry on with life as we try to deal....... As the sun starts to set and darkness is quickly approaching us like a vibrant wind , our day transforms into darkness all around......... our spirit is calm as the day is done, reflecting on the decisions weve made and the harmony that surrounds us, a serene feeling, without a sound........ So dont look back on the days of the past, they are only an image in your mind, move on with a new and fresh plan that will excell like never before........ Take the chance to change, you hold the golden key to succeed, be brave and have faith as you walk straight ahead to your future through that opened door!! Written By, Brenda McBride
With No Regrets
As you reflect back in time, capturing the moments youve had, dont feel sad for the road youve been on........
Cherish the memories they brought, with a sense of peace in your heart as you look upon.......
Each new adventure that you experienced was merely a stepping stone to where you are today.......
Have no regrets of your past as you move forward into your future with a loving and open mind........
Peace and tranquility are blesssings that we feel, as we transcend into our future with a love for mankind.......
So rejoice for all youve acheived as your path leads you down that winding and curvy road into tomarrows vision.......
Leaving us with faith as we climb to the next level , having dreams of tomarrow as we spread our wings in transition......
Forgiving yourself of any wrong doings as well as letting go of all your sorrows and fears youve had........
Each new day is a gift, so treasure the moments that are here, and dont dwell on the things that are sad.......
Take a brand new approach as you stumble upon your goals that you hope to acheive in your life.......
Enjoy the journey that is ahead, go forth, be bold as you show the world your strength along with your strife.......
Written By, Brenda Mcbride
Gifts From The Heart
It's in giving that we receive the pure essense of joy from our hearts that comes within our soul............
The beauty of giving is a gift we share, bringing happiness to another, feeling whole..........
Reaching out to one another, adding sparkle to someones day can make a big difference to a lonely heart.........
A simple smile or an act of kindness can go a long way leaving a peaceful feeling from the start...........
Cherish the love you feel for those who have profoundly touched your life in a big way.........
Its the memories that we carry when the day is done and havent much to say...........
The pure innocence and affection from our children is a priceless gift that nothing can compare.......
Bonding together with them as they grow is precious, with much to share..........
So when the day is done at last and the night seems too long to bear alone..........
Just reflect back upon all the love youve shared and all the joy you feel when you finally return home!
Written By- Brenda Mcbride
Anything Is Possible
When the journey youre on seems never ending and the challenges youre faced with
are just to much to bear, look ahead of your circumstances and you may come upon
a tiny glimpse of hope and sunshine. Even the smallest amount of faith can carry
us further than we could ever possibly imagine. That bumpy road eventually comes
to an end. As i reflect back in the depth of my mind, i can hardly believe how
much stress and strain i endured last summer. What enormous emotions i
experienced....... all of them were extreme feelings of anxiety, fear, and not
knowing what the outcome would be. I spent at least 6 months enduring these
unpredictable times that seemed endless, beyound hope. As i look back upon that
very horrific time in my life, i can honestly say i didnt have much faith in
anything. That sparkle in my life was gone as i approached the days ahead. I
finally began to see the light at the end of the tunnel months later. My
situation seemed to get better, little by little! I regained my self worth and
my faith in life itself started looking better as i moved forward to better
days. I now realize, maybe i had to learn a life long lesson., a lesson id never
forget! That herendous time in my life taught me how to believe in miracles and
things that we cant begin to understand. Even though i didnt feel i could get
through the stress of it all, i proved myself wrong! I did make it through! And
now, everything in my life is so much better with promise and a whole new start.
The big change that occured is phenominal! So when you feel that you just cant
handle anymore disappointments and your faith has vanished in the darkness, keep
believing! Dont give up the uphill climb! Its when youve finally reached the
top and can see the beauty that surrounds you, youll realize things can only get
better! Dont let lifes struggles pull you under, like a tidal wave! We all hold
the magic to our future and to our most desired dreams! Believe in yourself and
then, anything is possible!
Written By, Brenda Mcbride
[email protected]
are just to much to bear, look ahead of your circumstances and you may come upon
a tiny glimpse of hope and sunshine. Even the smallest amount of faith can carry
us further than we could ever possibly imagine. That bumpy road eventually comes
to an end. As i reflect back in the depth of my mind, i can hardly believe how
much stress and strain i endured last summer. What enormous emotions i
experienced....... all of them were extreme feelings of anxiety, fear, and not
knowing what the outcome would be. I spent at least 6 months enduring these
unpredictable times that seemed endless, beyound hope. As i look back upon that
very horrific time in my life, i can honestly say i didnt have much faith in
anything. That sparkle in my life was gone as i approached the days ahead. I
finally began to see the light at the end of the tunnel months later. My
situation seemed to get better, little by little! I regained my self worth and
my faith in life itself started looking better as i moved forward to better
days. I now realize, maybe i had to learn a life long lesson., a lesson id never
forget! That herendous time in my life taught me how to believe in miracles and
things that we cant begin to understand. Even though i didnt feel i could get
through the stress of it all, i proved myself wrong! I did make it through! And
now, everything in my life is so much better with promise and a whole new start.
The big change that occured is phenominal! So when you feel that you just cant
handle anymore disappointments and your faith has vanished in the darkness, keep
believing! Dont give up the uphill climb! Its when youve finally reached the
top and can see the beauty that surrounds you, youll realize things can only get
better! Dont let lifes struggles pull you under, like a tidal wave! We all hold
the magic to our future and to our most desired dreams! Believe in yourself and
then, anything is possible!
Written By, Brenda Mcbride
[email protected]
